How does poly work for you and your primary? Do you date together/separate? Sexytimes but not dating? Etc?
At the moment, we generally date together (read: we havenāt had dedicated datemates for⦠too long). Not on purpose really, though Boything prefers it. Weāve never dated separately; Iām really interested in trying it (thereās a couple of people I would LOVE to dateā¦), but Boything isnāt quite there yet. His happiness comes first for me, so I donāt press it too often, as it isnāt a necessity to keep me happy. Weāve had conversations about it, and he knows Iām curious.Ā Sexytimes is a conversation haver. Iāve got permission (as does he) to have sex with a handful of individuals without having to have conversation about it beforehand. Theoretically, if we wanted to have sex separately with someone(s) not on āthe listā as it were, weād have a conversation about it and see what happens.Ā Ā
















