#ash.soc

It seems like an incredibly cruel and unnecessary demand for introjects specifically. In our system, when we first spilt all we have is our name.

Also why do they have to change their name? If you’re that against them using their name, why can’t they use a nickname or an online name? Not that they should have to do that but why do you think they have to change such a core part of themself?

And asking for systems’ personal information to figure out if they have the “right qualifications” to use a name? That’s the opposite of internet safety practice, why would you encourage that?

What sketches us out is when the space is traumagenic or disordered only, and it allows singlets to join.

We can see a gradient of dark to light but not much more that that. We cannot tell the difference between “warm” skin tones and “cool” skin tones. We cannot see the yellow tint in our own skin. We cannot tell the difference between people who have similar skin tones but have green, red, yellow, orange tints. We’re not even sure we’re using tints right because we can’t see them and barely understand how they work. We only know them from other people and their descriptions of themselves and others.

We can’t see when people blush. Which can cause issues socially. We can’t see strawberry blonde hair. We can’t see our true hair or eye color so our image of the body is false.

God I forgot how horrible this feels. -Ash

No you may not. For our personal safety we don’t publish more than a few bits of personal information on our social media accounts.