#asexualaware

Since apparently, having your stuff reblogged for accountability when the other person decides to delete is being evil and wrong.

So I'm going to continue being evil and wrong. Ohprincesss/asex-ed/vuulpes/asexualaware gives no fucks about treating nonbinary people like people and overreacts (including throwing slurs around like confetti and threatening suicide) when approached politely. Yet still, she has the gall to claim that everyone is creating drama (she's the only one) and harassing her. 

This is what started it all. That's what's seen as 'harassment'. Saying "don't put both genders, because there's more than two" is harassment. A grand total of four people reblogged that post, commenting on the casual cissexism. One of the responses is here, where vuulpes says "you fucking people whine about how I'm a horrible person" when NOT ONE PERSON SAID THAT. Shortly after, I saw a post on my dash and reblogged it, from ohprincesss saying they won't advocate anymore. Then, for saying that I was glad they weren't teaching shit cissexist crap, I get reblogged and called a bitch. Always good to see gendered slurs from someone who's supposed to be an advocate, right? I didn't get bothered by it then, because vuulpes can be a jerk as much as she likes. I'm not going to get upset because someone wants to whine and play martyr as long as they're not teaching the wrong thing to anyone. That she then decided to threaten suicide (which I really should have capped, but I only have this now) over people harassing her is just silly, and as someone who was hospitalized over wanting to die, it's disrespectful to turn a mental illness into a childish play for sympathy over acting like a shithead. 

But of course, that didn't last long, and she wants to be an advocate again. If she was going to do her thing on her personal blog, as herself, not talking for an entire group of people, I would not care. I didn't even know she'd deleted ohprincesss (second deletion since knowing of her. First was asex-ed) and changed usernames until today. But I am not going to sit by and watch someone who has their head in their ass teach misinformation about a group that's so rarely heard of. But of course, she couldn't handle that. For someone who's supposedly so harassed, she replies to EVERY LITTLE THING ANYONE EVER SAYS ABOUT HER, and then complains over being reblogged. She responds so well to me pointing out the fallacy of saying that people shouldn't label everything while wanting to advocate for asexuality... a thing most people say shouldn't be labeled. 

Up until this point, I still don't really care about her. She's been a shithead and a pissbaby, but since she deleted the advocacy blog, I didn't bother caring anymore. And then there's THIS. And vuulpes gets deleted. 

This fucking piece of shit hates the idea of accountability and deleted THREE FUCKING TIMES because people objected to her teaching the wrong fucking information and were vocal about it.

I will not forget, whoever you choose to be next, you pissbaby. I will not let this go. You belong nowhere near calling yourself 'asexuality 101', you aren't even past kindergarten where you upset the table because the kid next to you picked up a crayon you weren't fucking using. 

Be whoever you are and stay out of asexual advocacy.