#asd thoughts

Thiiiiiiis! Dealing with this is a slow death of a thousand bleeding cuts.

Invalidating feelings

Ignoring obvious signs of distress/cries for help

Taking support, energy, and love without returning it

Justifying comments, jokes, slights at someone’s expense

Not showing up or putting in the absolute bare minimum of effort

That is not love. That is insidious and malicious emotional manipulation. I cannot stress this shit enough!

I am so fucking tired of having to explain this shit, and I am pissed off to the highest degree at the notion that it should be accepted to maintain peace. Suck my balls with that noise. FUCK peace.

*ahem*

I am lonely.

While frequenting parking lots around town, I came across a very peculiar looking bird. It was pretty big and a little intimidating. Ok, a lotta bit intimidating. Sooooooooo being the oddball that I am, I was curious about the type of bird it was BUT I had to take a pic so I could show my son proof that I’d found the Biggest Bird™️ (if you know, you know cuz I don’t know whatchu herrrrd🦆) in the wild.

Fast forward to today and I’m in that same parking lot but near a small pond and there’s ton of these big screeching birds!! So to the Google I went. They are Muscovy ducks! Annnnnnd the male Muscovy duck is the largest duck in the world, they can weigh up to 15 pounds which is slightly terrifying.

The more you know, hmm.

xo