Jul 24
I don't understand people who believe in love at first sight. Like, that's not what love is? That's just attraction? It can lead to love, sure, but that's. Not the same thing.
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I don't understand people who believe in love at first sight. Like, that's not what love is? That's just attraction? It can lead to love, sure, but that's. Not the same thing.
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Every fictional character and relationship can be looked at with an aroace lens if you try hard enough. It comes easy to me tho 😌
I wish aromanticism and relationship anarchy weren't so erased. They mean the world to me. Fuck my stupid chud life
reading and kinda crying at the quoiromantic manifesto by Nakamakura Kasumi but this part in particular cut through me
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its so cool how romance was made up for fiction it really gives things flavor. thank god we don't have to worry about it in real life
Ramble about being acespec and arospec below the cut
Calling myself ace implies that I'm using a pretty liberal definition of the term since like 1. Libido 2. Sex haver 3. Sex enjoyer but there's a few things that make me prefer asexuality over other options
If anything I think demisexual might be a more accurate/precise descriptor because I am sure I do not experience sexual attraction with like 90% of people. 99% even. I do find people cute, pretty or hot but it always comes from a place of aesthetic appreciation, whereas sexual attraction is described as Actually Desiring The Person Sexually. My bf is a big ❓ because he checks every box I have. But it feels more like sex is an activity I enjoy doing with him rather than something I want from him. But then again that's probably standard allosexual procedure so ❓ unsure. Warrants further research
The other thing is that when I step outside of the aro/ace community after being in it for so many years and try to go into the other ones, I get a pretty big cultural shock. And it feels a little silly; of course the communities tied together by attraction have said attraction as the main topic of conversation. If anything, it makes me realize how much of that I lack. And honestly? Right now, I feel like it's better that way. Especially with how overwhelmingly cisgender these communities feel.
And when it comes to aromanticism... I don't really say it out loud but I'm quoiromantic. I can't identify romantic attraction. I still really enjoy romantic behaviors and loving with my whole heart, but it's never clear cut as romantic to me. I'm just me, I guess. And it gets weird because I am super happy with my relationships but then people outside of it address it as alloromantic and I feel a little pang about it. I'm still aro. I understand why it is the way it is; I wish that wouldn't get lost on the way I behave and how relationships are classified. I love my boyfriend and my joyfriend with my whole heart; it's just... Not in the way other people think that is. I have to admit, I do sometimes worry that makes my love less valuable. But I digress.
My aromanticism and asexuality really matter to me, but end up not being very visible because I behave in a way that's uncommon for aroace people. And ngl, that stings. I wish things weren't this way. I really do.
more fwb smut more fwb smut more fwb smut NOT FWBS TO LOVERS. NOT. THAT. GODFORSAKEN. TROPE. FWBS AND IT STAYS THAT WAY FOR ETERNITY AND ITS HAPPY NOT ANGSTY. FUCK!!!!!!!!
