it's been a while since i've logged into tumblr and that means two main things:

the layout confuses me again! (i have, unintentionally, unlearned the layout and how everything works and now it feels new again. yes, i sound like a grandpa when i say this; no i am not a grandpa.)

no updates in *a really long time*

i guess i'm still trying to figure out what to use my blog for. i don't know who (if anyone) is reading it. and the thing is, of course i want to be a person who can show people that yes, aroace people do exist. and we can still find connection and care and that, no, that is not mutually exclusive with being aroace.

Yeah you've surely been through a friend replacing you over some mf they dogged up from the ground 🙄.

And nah, I wasn't even talking about like irl meetings or something, I primarily meant text-based interaction. (Obviously during their free time, I'm not telling anyone to quit their job)

Like if someone's interaction w their friend lasts for like 10 minutes, and only like a few times per month, but they have no issues talking to some other ppl on a daily basis, then how is any of this an actual friendship? How is any of that fair?

I don't know your identity, but the way how ppl are hypocritical about friendships, act like you're a monster for not having them, but then assume you have to reconcile with barely any interaction if they get a mf up their ass, then what's even the point?..