Aquarius male: Mind, Body, and Soul āļø
Heās foreign, heās an alien with a vacant expression and wondering eyes. His eyes glisten and sparkle moving about his many thoughts. Heās the Aquarian male, Ganymede, the cup bearer of the Gods. Exotic and bizarre looking. His features are almost androgynous. Feminine yet masculine and surprisingly beautiful. His aloof nature only adding to his mystery.
Heās a mortal transformed into a God, so to speak. An immortal man living among the commoners. His body firmly planted on earth getting a taste of what is earthly. Yet his mind is somewhere in the stars, circling and traveling across the galaxy. Navigating between the present and future. Seeing visions of what might come to be. Waiting and anticipating these visions to come into fruition only to arrogantly claim that he knew all along.
Heās an arrogant and intellectual genius. A reformer, a rebel, and a leader. Some of the most genius, progressive minds, and mystics were born under Aquarius and Uranic rule. Mozart, Rasputin, Galileo, Copernicus, Thomas Edison, Franklin D Rosevelt, Abraham Lincoln, and Charles Darwin. They were visionaries who saw into the future or perhaps future travelers visiting our earth to bestow on humanity that chase of knowledge and insight. Looking to reform and change humanity for the better.
This water bearer represents purity, knowledge, love on a conscious level, spiritual healing, and sexuality. Carrying around a cup full of water that was meant for the Gods but was sent to earth, by our grace, to give us a taste of divinity. To enlighten us and help us reach the highest level of spirituality. His purpose was to serve in a beautifully and innocent like way. Offering his greatest gift of all. His mind.
The Aquarian male has such control and power over his body, mind, and emotions. He has the power to manipulate and control his destiny. And that includes his sexual urges as well. He will use this power to get where he wants to go, with little regard or concern for traditional morality. He sets the rules and he follows them to how he seems fit. And he expects his future wife to follow suit. If not he will not hesitate to prove his point by convincing her the best way he can. Facts and truths. If she so relents, he will only grow frustrated, reclusive, and insensitive.
The Aquarian male needs to feel like heās above his partner, in an intellectual argument. She will equal him in everything else but when it comes to their intellectual database, he knows everything and he has to win on the intellectual front. Otherwise heād feel like a fool and will be hurt by his blatant ignorance. He will go on and do his own research, finding ways to prove his spouse wrong. Because Aquarians know everything, they canāt be proven wrong or be made a laughingstock.
When it comes to everything else that doesnāt pertain to logic, heās pretty much open and flexible. This includes his sexuality. Although an Aquarian prefers to remain pure and intact. Waiting for that perfect partner who he can connect with on an intellectual, emotional, and sexual level, he will entertain the idea of playing the field. Not so much because he wishes to weed out any girls that throw themselves at him. But more so for pure entertainment. He gets a kick out of all the girls who wish to get under his skin. Only fueling his superiority complex (he knows heās unique and he knows what he has to offer).
He suppresses his physical, sensual, and sexual desires so often, that they tend to combust much like his emotions. So heāll take advantage of these earthly pleasures that seem to sprout in sudden unexpected times. He doesnāt want emotional attachments. One night stands, paid services, virtual sex, anything that will avoid repeat encounters. Because women will ask for more than he wishes to offer, heāll cut them lose in an almost cruel way. Heāll ghost himself out of existence which will only make the females even more desperate to win this man over. Hoping to convince him, manipulate him, or plead to him to be theirs. Heāll let them down easily. Regurgitating to them the terms of their agreement. āNo strings attachedā.
He will commit but only to a woman who has matched him in character, ideals, and status. A woman who he respects and who respects herself. He will devote his whole relationship to keeping it fresh and alive. He grows easily bored in relationships and detests stagnation. Keeping a superficial, detached sense in the relationship keeps it from playing out like other relationships. He will go above and beyond to make his partner happy. Surprise trips, unexpected gifts, and out of the blue professions of love, will fuel his mental stimuli. He rejoices in seeing her natural expressions of gratitude. Only fueling his ego and sense of self.
In bed, he will surprise his partner. In the forefront, he tends to exude an almost calm, childlike, innocence. But once behind close doors, all those reserved emotions and controlled impulses are released. He can have sadistic inhibitions come to light. Being extremely experimental in bed, any position, any location, any device is welcome here. It is in the bedroom where one can get a sense an Aquarian actually being human. When heās not pouncing away from behind, and turning his lover into a rag doll or turning her into the poster girl for a homemade porn flick, he will show a softer side that most women never get to see. They see a tender, loving man, who can be as passionate in bed as he is in thought. It is here where women feel like theyāve hit the jackpot. Not because he may be the master of sex, like a Scorpio, or because he is as spontaneous, as an Aries, or as warm as a Leo, but because he is the master of innovation and experimentation.
Any fantasies his wife might have thought of or ideas she might have come up with, they will be realized with him. And she will enjoy every minute of it. He was born to please even in the boudoir. He loves seeing his partner get off on him and moaning his name. Yelling vulgarities or professing her deep desire for him and every inch of his body. It will only set him off, fueling both his mind and ego, encouraging him to even try harder to please her. It is at this moment that she sees a glimpse of him in the present and in the now. But once he gets her off, heās off again going into his mind and into his thoughts. Back into the future or into the stars again. Leaving his partner bewildered and wondering where heās off too again, if not so used to it by now.
Sheāll never have to wonder about his fidelity. Because Aquarian males are so deep in thought, they hardly entertain the idea of taking it further with their many female friends. And he will remain faithful as long as she will. Because thereās nothing worse to an Aquarian male than the act of betrayal. In a marriage he will most likely stick around only to return the favor. Sleeping around with all the females he has befriended during the course of his lifetime. He will battle with telling his spouse and keeping it a secret. Toying with her emotions every time they argue. Hinting at his infidelity only to later tell her that she was out of her mind.
But then again⦠thatās only if he ever decides to even marry.















