#apairofshoes

One day, a spritual teacher explained to his students. “If you wanna get marry someday, seek a spouse who obeys and loves to Allah. If someone obeys to Allah, that person will obey you. If someones loves Allah, once that person gives the love, that person will only love you.”

There’s hand up. “Yes you”. Said the teacher.

“But it’s not easy to find a person who’s perfect like that”, a boy gave any interruption.

“Did I say, seek the perfect one?”

No one answer. The class be silent.

“No. I didn’t say that. I told, seek who obeys and loves Allah. Even you’ll find lacks from someone who obeys and loves Allah. It’s normal, we’re human, humane. No one’s perfect”

A hand’s up, without any instructions she asked shortly, “what kind of lack sir?”

“Yes. Don’t think that you’re future spouse is an angel or saint; who never does wrong thing, who never be angry or upset, who’s always nice. No”

The class listen carefully.

“Sometimes your spouse will do the wrong things. Even, maybe you won’t like it so much. Don’t go. Say it. Remember him/her that’s it’s wrong and you don’t like it. Don’t go”

“And sometimes your spouse will show his/her bad-tempered too. Keep calm. You’re the water when you’re spouse becomes a fire. If you’re fire, he/she is fire, everything will be burnt. You should look through yourself too, maybe you’ve done something wrong so your spouse gets angry to you, if that so, don’t be shy to apologize first. Or maybe your spouse has problem at work place or any other problems. Whatever happens, if you’re spouse is on bad-tempered, keep calm. Be patient”

“Don’t you think that your spouse is someone who will make you smile and laugh every day. All whole year. Nope. Your spouse is human, he/she can be sad too. Can be weak. Sometimes you who should entertain your spouse. You’re his/her smile when he/she feel sad. You’re two should can support each other.”

“That’s only any simple example. You’ll know completely someday. When you’ve found your love one, and marry. You’re two lilke a pair of shoes. Seems different. But you’re two walk to one aim, one goal, in a harmony. That’s one aim and goal is Allah’s paradise. Where’s your love will be everlasting even after you leave this world, die.”