(Sorry for the long post!) I just wanted to say thank you. I recently came out after never considering myself LGBT or knowing about these topics in depth, and I identified as pan, as I had only heard of bi meaning attracted to men and women. I’ve been doing a lot of searching and came across your posts. Through them I learned that definition of bisexual is wrong and bi is already inclusive of trans. You have a way with explaining in simple no-nonsense terms how m-spec (a word that’s completely new to me!) and pan harms bi people and contributes to the stigma which I myself started with. It takes a lot of guts to post things like this in a place like Tumblr. I guess I just wanted to say thank you and let you know that you’ve educated another person who greatly appreciates it. I have a long way to go to understand myself and the discourse more greatly but I’m glad through people like yourself I can read both sides of the argument, not just whatever is most-tumblr-like. I feel much more educated as a bi person now.
You're so welcome, and I'm always open to talk if you're comfortable with that! If you have any questions I'll do my best to answer 💕
