Why don't guy friends get the credit they deserve?
*I just found this on my Drafts and have forgotten why I wrote it and who I wrote it for. Anyway, these are all my personal opinions and yes, I pretty much think guy friends are underrated.*
Before whenever I spot a girl and a boy laughing their asses off, talking just about anything and everything and simply being happy with each other`s company yet not taking it to a higher level, I`d ask to myself "why not" and think why they can`t just work things out since it's easy to imagine them as the perfect kind of couple, the kind who knows each other to the core.
But meeting a few boys who I can talk to about EVERYTHING & who I would not run out of things to say, I set that thought aside. I finally understood that there are just boys, regardless of how much you know about one another, how comfortable you guys can be and how you can just literally cry in front of them yet not feel any uncomfortable rush of feelings, will just always be your friend, your best friend, your close friend.
And I`d like to believe those type of guys are the ones worth keeping, worth remembering and worth the trust. They are the type who I can tell stories about how gross I can be, how I think about the society, how stupid I am, how bad I can be, how I can publicly show my worst side without getting judged and losing their trust and how I can tell what I am currently thinking about no matter what it is. Guys who I can sit in silence with, who I can borrow money from and free to not return it, who forgive and forget, who disses me and who I'm always allowed to diss back, who I am free to talk to about boys's bad side and not get beaten up, who teases my taste, and who thinks they're better than Edward Cullen [ they are btw ].
Because of guy bestfriends, girls are guaranteed to always have someone they can go back to every time they feel like being eaten alive, there will always be guys who won`t break their hearts [ & would even fix it if the need comes ], guys who make them feel secure & would never ever be alone, guys who do not care how much you eat, would even encourage you to eat more and dare to call you weak when you didn't top the number of cups of rice they had, and guys who will treat you the way you want & deserve to be treated.