#amab problems

the binary AGAB/ASAB terms were created with the intent of describing how doctors would mutilate newborns into being "proper females" (afab) or "proper males" (amab)... you dont wanna be using these! they're inherently tied to the medical malpractice involving newborn infants, toddlers, kids and teens. be mindful of that!

Thought I’d share a photo timeline of the four days it took me and my fiancé to pluck my face for the first time. I’d been using a skin surface home electrolysis kit for about a month beforehand. Seems like it’s helping, certainly there’s a lot less scruff now than there was before. Though I definitely need to do it again soon. Yes it hurt and yes it was worth it!

You do know it can be both right. That sometimes it’s sexual, and sometimes it isn’t? That one person can experience it or use it non-sexually, and another person doesn’t? And that people tend to gather around subcultures that share a frame of reference?

It’s almost like tone tags serve as clarification on what a given person means, out of two or more options, or something. It’s almost like that was why they were invented in the first place.

It’s almost like, these people were using tone tags correctly, all along, and telling you at which specific times they DIDN’T experience it and mean it sexually.

@lorddeathofmurdermountain