#allycakes

You’d call her all sorts of names and kick her out of the community but because she’s a hot woman who you used to either jerk of too or wanted to be friends with you excuse her behavior

Unless CP kept her locked up the last 10 years she could have done something, called out his behavior, went to the authorities anything but letting him continue to do what he was doing

Everyone complains about how bad this community is but no one wants to expel the cancers from it

Aly

Riley

Anyone who takes advantage of others cut em out

Aly never took meaningful accountability for what she did, coming on here to “explain” doesn’t do anything

Her sticking around after saying she no longer feels bad about the things she done just means she hasn’t learned she just learned how to not feel bad.

She hangs out with addicts but she herself is supposedly in recovery does she not realize what a slippery slope that is?

I recognize how predatory she is, that’s why I made my posts

Surrounding yourself with sycophants who won’t call you out on your behavior and having a bunch of folks coddle you and say “it’s okay you allowed a predator to hurt others, your were groomed”

She stopped being a victim the moment she turned a blind eye

She isn’t a safe person in the community and i personally feel we need to have her go away

No more cons, munches etc

Another anon: dont say people cant take accountability or move on afterwards, if they do its obvious they didnt actually show changed behavior

The next 3 days on the blog: incessantly nagging about something that happened 10 years ago, further driving the narrative weve always said. Nobody is allowed to grow, take accountability, or be responsible and you will, in fact, never let shit go.

Wow. Thanks for proving the point Ive made for literal years in this community and why I wont make friends with any of you.

Agreed. Being groomed and not taking accountability for how stupid you were for letting it happen can be true at the same time.

I was SA’d by my uncle when I was a minor all while knowing it wasn’t right but not having the willpower to stop it. It was wrong, but I was a people pleaser. I wish I said no but I didn’t because I was more sexually mature than I was mentally.

Ally used the word kidnapped on the last blog while avoiding her accountability in going along with CP to get diapered pictures at 17 y/o. That’s coercion, not kidnapping. Yes CP is an angry military man, but you could’ve said no or ghosted him and you didn’t. He didn’t forcibly abduct and traffic you just to take some pictures.

You can’t go to court and say “sorry your honor while yes I did sexually assault someone, I was drunk so it really wasn’t my fault”

Aly making excuses for what she’s done wrong under the shroud of being groomed is bs

She witnessed bad things, why didn’t she stop them? People take advantage of the being groomed to not take accountability

She only commented on here cause she was being called out if you was really remorseful she’d do more than excuses

I don’t agree she was making excuses, I think she was providing full context of the situation and took responsibility. she also wasn’t the one who brought up being groomed by CP.

Why you tagging allycakes admin, it has nothing to do with her anymore

I'm too old for tiktok so try again.

Please show your source that a new method of ABA is evidence based, because all I see is the controversy of the "previous" method..

had another point but we'll keep it for later