I tend to call people “my guys” or “my dudes” and compliment them by saying things like “pretty” and “beautiful,” regardless of their gender (without really thinking about it). So, if I say one of these things (or anything, really) and it makes you even the slightest bit uncomfortable, please please tell me!! I know that words like these have naturally strong gender connotations, so it’s perfectly understandable that having them used to describe you might make you feel awkward/uncomfortable/etc., but I can promise that that wasn’t my intention in the slightest and I will do anything I can to make you feel comfortable and good and loved. So, please let me know and I’ll make sure to use different words. ♡♡♡♡♡
(Even if it isn’t an issue of gender, please let me know if I say something that makes you uncomfortable.)
















