#against normal

Just saw the statement 'even normies practice polyamory' and frankly. well. a) I think if you're practicing polyamory you are categorically not a normie, and b) I've never met a polyamorist who could be described as a normie if they were monogamous. every polyamorist I've ever known is kinky, queer and has hobbies so nerdy they wouldn't be comfortable bringing them up at work. but mostly I think polyamory is inherently not normie.

Reading memoirs, especially by non-celebrities, does a wonderful job of shaking up your idea of 'normal people'. Everyone has strange and unique parts of themselves, odd childhood experiences, things that shaped them. A different shape to the imagined 'default human', and far more interesting.