#adhdrelationship

I met this boy in high school. He is not my type, at that time. Plus he already had a girlfriend. He did not notice me, so did I. Until he moved to the United State. Here is when everything became so complicated between me and his new girlfriend, which was my good friend.

They broke up, and my friend blamed me. She thought I liked him, but i was not. because these kids were fighting all the fucking times, and both of them always updated me with their problem, and i became so intense did skype-ing with my friend and him.

until in 2014,  he came to my hometown. He told me that he liked me, I like him too, because he has changed a lot, physically. to be honest, i don't know him at all, we never talked when we were in high school.

He got suspended from his university, I guess it is because the ADHD, he too focused on his ex-girlfriend (this is another girl he met in university) and he forgot his obligation to study. at that time, he already told me about he has ADHD. but i did not take it seriously, i was so unfamiliar with this disorder. Until we started dating on July 2015. this ADHD things is serious issue in our relationship. After the first month, he has changed a lot, he ignored me and that makes feel lonely, unwanted, unlove, and these kind of feelings is really.... something, i can describe the sadness. man, this is hard and hurt. he started lie to me about the small things, when i asked him why he do that. he said, it makes him comfortable, and feel accepted in the society. yes, this is another problem for those people with ADHD. they are too much worried about something.

Now is May 2016 and this shit is real, we fought all the time. It is not only the ADHD but also his life issues. he is trying to get his ass back to the United State, and he has no interest at all in this relationship, and i am the one who struggle to make this relationship better, and ofcourse, understand him better. this is hard, but things get easier and brighter too. dont loose hopes, keep believing. and this is my story..