Hey so I have a question about bpd and FPs? Does it ever feel like the attention from an fp "doesn't count" if you start talking to them first? Like if I initiate a conversation with an fp I don't feel satisfied bc *i* had to ask them for attention and it feels nicer/better when they start talking to me? Is this a common thing or no? Because of this I tend to split really easily and I hate it
hello!! i understand what u mean!!!! like,, it means a lot more when they start a conversation bc.. they thojght of us first they wanted to talk to us first. and iâm sure itâs a common thing for borderlines!!!! i totally get the splittign thing,, like how dare they not talk to me first how dare,,, itâs ok!!!! u arenât alone ipromise. i hope u r safe









