#addy tw

i can honestly say that i hate when people vague post , but i’m guilty of doing this sometimes ( although about nobody i follow / am mutuals with . usually just if i’m peeved about 1x1ing or a rp im in ) . i also just realise i misread your first sentence bc i thought u were talking about the rpc in whole . WOW SORRY . 

i’m going to tell u something honestly here . a long long time ago , when a*dy was on the site , i found her very uncomfortable for a while . i blocked her , but that literally did NOT work because she had such a large presence and following and i honestly hated seeing her on my dash in any form . anyways , it didn’t help that she deleted and remade her blog a few times so for a while there , a year or so back , i kept trying to block her new blogs that would pop up but it was impossible .

for me , personally , i did feel better when i kinda just  . . stopped looking at her blog altogether , or thinking about the presence she had . like if i saw her post pop up somewhere , or somebody rb her selfie , i’d just scroll really quickly and that genuinely helped me just Ignore . 

i don’t know if this helps at all  , but i just want you to know that i genuinely 1000% understand what it feels like to find someone uncomfortable and not be able to escape them . but i would suggest blocking them first , if you can / haven’t already . i don’t know who they are , but i’m sorry they’ve been toxic and unhealthy and made things not Great for you . that’s super unfair on you . i don’t have any solid tips , i’m afraid , except blocking them or muting them , or fiddling around to see if any xkit extension may help you . however , maybe a follower has better advice ??? i’m personally the queen of unfollowing anyone who makes me uncomfortable or seems super Toxic , but i know sometimes people in the rpc can be really hard to avoid , even if you do unfollow or block them .

have you tried maybe even just talking to someone , like a friend or trusted person , about this person ? that way , you’re not posting a call out , but you’re also letting out  / releasing your inner emotions and conflict about them . this also helped me greatly , whenever i’m feeling iffy about someone and i can’t avoid them .

alternatively again . unfollow , block , and if you can . . unfollow all their little friends . even if THEY haven’t done anything to you . it’s all about building back up a safer environment for YOU . 

i’m so sorry that happened to you kdlfjlsdf like wtf how is she going to preach about being a better person and how she’s changed when she can’t even apologize for what she did while she was on that blog. like i swear she treats it as if her like twin did it or something and that she could no longer be held accountable for the things she did on rpslayed because it’s in the “past”