My girlfriend just realized she was ace not too long ago. I love to kiss her and we used to kiss a lot but ever since she realized she was asexual she stopped. We still cuddle and hug but I was wondering if that was okay for a relationship? You don't need to kiss 24/7 in a relationship right?
Hey anon,
That’s absolutely OK in a relationship! When it comes to relationships, there aren’t really too many boxes you absolutely need to check. As long as you’re both comfortable and happy in the relationship, everything’s fine. Relationships, like people, come in all kinds of shapes and sizes, the only important part is that everyone involved is happy with the way things are. ^.^
If it’s a case that you miss kissing her though, maybe you could talk to her about it. Communication is key and there could absolutely be a compromise here that would benefit both of you.
I hope this answers your question, feel free to message me again about this or anything else. ^.^
