#about expectations

So... after we know about Lolo's interview that Expectations was about Ty I wanted to do some research about this stuff. About how  ridiculous that sentence is. And I want to start with a few interviews of Lolo before the releasing of the song. Nylon Interview

https://nylon.com/articles/lauren-jauregui-nylon-september-2018-cover

She said in this interview that her music would talk about her experiences with the people of her life. She made clear that her songs were about men and women in her life. She is bisexual. We all know that she had a relationship with Lucy Vives in the past despite of be a PR relationship, @harmonyshield (I fixed it)

We will have that vision of her life in her songs also despite of her now being with her PR crap relationship. Now, we could think about this and have doubts about this song being about him, right? We could... except for...

Billboard Interview (AMA's/Chelsea Briggs)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Y58jO5mO1A

I think that this interview is gold and makes me remember to Camila and her genderless when she talked about the someones on her songs

Transcription: you so much so excited about your single 00:08 expectations that you're about to drop 00:10 your fans are so excited and you said 00:13 that this song it's not 00:15 the new Lauren it's the real Lauren this 00:17 is what you've always been to talk about 00:19 that explain that a little yeah well 00:21 this is just like you know one of the 00:22 first songs that I've been able to kind 00:23 of have control over my creative process 00:25 and really delve into you know what it 00:28 was I was feeling at the time and how it 00:30 is that I like to express things and how 00:31 it is that I like to kind of cuz 00:33 expectations is an exploration of kind 00:35 of when you're in a relationship with 00:37 someone and you know you don't want to 00:39 have expectations but they kind of get 00:40 in the way regardless so it's about that 00:42 and I feel like it's just my personal 00:45 take on it so it's just different and 00:46 personal you know talking to you years 00:49 ago and you saying that you were then 00:51 you were excited to put out music your 00:52 own music you've always kind of been 00:53 someone that's writing and been a 00:54 creative what is it that you didn't get 00:56 to do in fifth harmony that you're 00:57 excited to do in your solo career I 00:59 think just having you know creative 01:01 agency and just allowing myself if being 01:03 my vision that comes to life...

"This song is not about a new Lauren it's about the real Lauren" "Expectations is an exploration of kind of when you're in a relationship with someone and you know you don't want to have expectations but they kind of getting the way regardless so it's about that and I feel like it's just my personal take on it so it's just different and personal you know talking to you years ago"

So, Lolo said that the song it’s about her and we all see that in the music video. It’s just her and internal fight, it’s about her and a relationship she had with someone never mentioned Ty. 

The last part of these two sentences caught my attention, tho. Lolo, said to Chelsea that the song it was her personal take and that she (Chelsea) knows that because they talked about years ago. With this, something says me that she wrote the song a long time ago and not this year like I've read in the internet. Something curious isn't? We all know that Chelsea is one of our biggest supporter inside the camren fandom and she knows the girls since the beginning when they were in 5H. Chelsea knows things that we don't and never will about the girls and that's why I found this interview interesting.

Now, I think that the last interview with Lolo that made mad to a lot of us, it was more than promoting Ty's new album. It was a control damage. A clean of image. Maybe because of this: Elite Daily Article

https://www.elitedaily.com/p/lauren-jauregui-ty-dolla-signs-body-language-is-extremely-mysterious-12592698

It's a suppression. (And the Camren Narrative fits here too with her) I still think that the management are trying to erase the bisexual part of Lolo. I have that strong feeling because I don't think that her PR will end so soon. For what I know she have another exhausting year of hell. And yes, It's a damn of a hell.

(These aren’t my images, thanks to the owners)

sometimes it feels like people have way too much / too high expectations when it comes to movies, tv series etc. like yes, it's okay to want certain things to happen but it should be remembered that too much is too much. and the the disappointment happens.

it's hard to please everyone, obviously. but what i've learned from the years in various fandoms etc. is that it's best not to have too high expectations. that way i rarely get disappointed.

i take the things as they are and if i don't like it that much, then it's okay. we're not supposed to like everything. love and hate a surprisingly close when you think about it. it's like there can't be one without the other.