#abbynormalblog

I literally LOVE that movie! I watch it with my dad occasionally(:

I just found out that actually they want the sex you were born with, so they know what kinds of diseases you could get and stuff like that! It’s a medical history thing, not a gender binary thing. You can also leave a note next to it though!

but like a couple of things

1) I'm going there for my mental health

2) it said "gender"

3) I will definitely make a note

i'M SORRY FOR REBLOGGING OK ILU IT'S NOT THAT MARGINALIZED PEOPLE ARE SHIT i see it like, trying to help but we aren't helping, but if i don't help i'm just taking advantage of my privilege?? like pLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO I'M SORRY I'M TRASH

okay, it is definitely a fine line, but here are some guidelines:

always defer to marginalized people when they're talking about their situations. like, if someone asks you a question about a problem a marginalized group faces, find resources written by someone from that marginalized group to point them towards.

make sure you're not talking over them or for them. again, they know best about their own situations. as an ally, your job is to make sure that their voices get heard, not to talk for them.

if someone from a marginalized group is saying "ugh, all [people from majority group] suck," DO NOT go "but we're not all like that." you're making the situation about you. if you're doing the right thing, they are not talking about you. them making a generalization about a group that is generally hurtful/oppressive to them is not the same is the oppression they face. also, if you feel the need to instantly defend yourself, you might want to examine your behavior and figure out whether or not you are one of the people they are talking about.

if someone from the group you're allying with says that you are doing something harmful/oppressive, listen to them and make steps to change your behavior. don't make it about you. don't just apologize. back it up with your actions. 

don't spend more time defending allies than you do defending people from the group you're allied with. they just do not need it.

do not tone-police. meaning, if someone from a marginalized point is angry about the oppression they face and uses harsh language, don't tell them that they have to be nice. they are under no obligation to be nice or educational. they are a person, not a resource for more privileged people.

don't threaten to revoke your allyship because they're being mean/rude/angry/not presentable

on the other hand, DO use your position of privilege to call out oppression. it's fucked up, but a lot of the time, people are more likely to listen to a person outside of the marginalized group than one within it. often, you have the privilege of not getting angry because the issue does not directly affect you. use this privilege to be nice and educational. again, back yourself up with firsthand sources whenever possible, but USE YOUR POWER FOR GOOD!

so yeah, those are just some suggestions. another thing that makes that comic really shitty is the beginning where they're like "omg we're so oppressed." very minimizing of the actual struggles people in marginalized groups face.

WOW THE BLUE ONES LOOK HELLA CUTE ON YOU I LIKE THEM A LOT

1. Post the rules. 2. Answer the questions the tagger asked you, then make 11 new ones. (also tag the tagger) 3. Tag 11 people and link them to your post. 4. Let them know you’ve tagged them.

favorite video game? Persona 4 hands down.

what grade r u in Sophomore in college orz

do u give a shit if ppl use XD or uwu Nope, don't care.

have u ever had a first kiss (if so describe it) Nope :/

made any friends online? Yes lots of them.

u crushin on anyone pretty hard right now? Yes, unfortunately. Crushes suck.

how many fandoms r u in( if ur in 2 many,list just the main ones) and do u ship any characters in said fandoms Ummm a bunch, Night Vale, Persona, Homestuck, Kill la Kill are the big ones, and I ship CarlosxCecil, KanjixMe, ChiexYukiko, IraxMe and Rosemary.

whats ur best subject in school? As of right now??? I don't really know, usually some kind of science or math class, but its hard.

do u own anything ironically and if so what Not really. 

yo if u ship anything what’s ur tru guilty ship Don't really have one. 

name one thing that never fails 2 make u happy bc man u did it u deserve whatever it is that makes u happy good job man Drinking tea and reading.

I probably won't tag too many people because I don't want to bother them. 

What's your biggest pet peeve?

Do you often lie about things that are kind of insignificant?

How many times have you been ice skating?

Do you like to go camping?

Have you ever found a significant amount of money on the ground?

You have to lose one sense to have the other five significantly enhanced, which would you lose?

What is one question you always have trouble answering when people ask?

Can you twerk?

Do you like to pretend you can twerk?

What's a song that you hate that you love as much as you do? 

What's something small and not usually noticeable that you find really cute when people do?