Afternoon Tea: #NotYourAsianSidekick
With treats spread across the table and sisters and allies gathered in the living room, we hosted our first Afternoon Tea of the year!
Afternoon Tea is an opportunity to discuss a current social issue that is relevant to the AAPI community in an intimate setting. Our theme this time around was the infamous hashtag, #NotYourAsianSidekick, which was conceptualized by Chicago-based activist and writer, Suey Park.
The premise of the hashtag was to create “a space for Asian-American, Pacific Islander, and Native Hawaiian women.., build community, and be heard” (@Salon). With more than 50,000 tweets in two days, it acutely became a Twitter Trending Topic, but its viral success left many dubious about its contribution to an actual “revolution.” It became so widespread that even activists had their qualms about it, leaving the hashtag’s limelight questionable. Because of this, we thought it would be interesting to create our own (physical) space and ask ourselves, "What does feminism mean to us and how do we practice it in the AAPI community?"
There was no better way to share our reactions, insights, and experiences than with scrumptious scones, sweets, and tea by our side.
Here are some photos from that afternoon:
NAPAWF-DC sisters and allies
Before our discussion began, Minhchau Dinh, NAPAWF-DC Chapter Leader, guided us through an icebreaker, where we highlighted snippets of our past and future selves.
The decade marked here is the 1980s: a time in which our parents immigrated to the United States from the Philippines and other motherlands.Â
When the conversation got going, it was a refreshing reminder that we are all ready advocating for ourselves and other women of color in our respective careers or communities.
Feminism exists and it lives strongly in the AAPI community. Can't you see the fierceness that extends from our shining eyes to our winning smiles? A nice caption to this photo should be--can you guess? #NotYourAsianSidekick.Â
#NotYourAsianSidekick Discussion Guide – Resource by Devan Shea, NAPAWF-DC Chapter Leader
Anatomy of a hashtag – Via Al JazeeraÂ