#a-asks

is there a term for being a- (like asexual, aromantic, afamilial, etc), but experiencing a little attraction due to trauma? like similar to demi- or grey- but the little attraction is because of trauma, if you weren't traumatised you would have been just a-, if that makes sense?

i was wondering because there's a term for being aspec because of trauma, so maybe there's something for the other way round?

thanks for reading :)

I was wondering if maybe you could add Nickilosexual??

Here's the link for the term: https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Nickilosexual

If you can't open it:

Nickilosexual is when one is attracted to stereotypical romantic antics. This could be valentines day cards, chocolate boxes, paying on the first date, etc. This is often tied in with relationships of a lovecoric individual, but is not exclusive to it. One may find it difficult to date someone who does not hold these "cheesy" stereotypes.

This may be considered an ace-spec identity, as one may have exclusive attraction/may not gain attraction to one until they have shown signs of being romantically stereotypical.

https://www.tumblr.com/belinhagamer999/704560909367083008/inhoromantic-flag

https://www.tumblr.com/belinhagamer999/696332438110109696/arointruthought-when-youre-aro-but-you-have

https://www.tumblr.com/belinhagamer999/689898581021327360/aromigo

https://www.tumblr.com/belinhagamer999/718285386077601792/repulhypersexy

That isn't very solidarity like of you.

https://www.deviantart.com/twilight-moon-velvet/art/Anattractional-755218590

https://www.tumblr.com/beyond-mogai-pride-flags/175886265700/asexy-pride-flag

I didn't like the design very much ;-;

You can make as many variations as you want✨

Hi! The flag you link is the pan oriented aroace flag. But I made a version for each anyway.