#20sproblems

It's like paying for a Lexus so yeah and I can afford it just... Im definitely gonna need a higher paying job if I want my life of travel, BTS merch, going out to eat, taking my brother on trips, getting clothes, treating my friends and so, getting mostly natural/organic food, and having a comfy space to live in.

😂 Im not asking for a house and a bunch dogs y'all this is my idea of 20 something not married luxury really. Im a simple person. Seriously. I live on a grocery bill of ~150 a month im pretty frugal.

Photo credit: Sangeeta Nambi.

You know, no one ever warned us that our 20s would be so difficult.

I want to say something corny like, "Oh, I wish I could ffwd to see what my life is like."

BUT. I DON'T.

I already feel too old. I don't want ffwd anything -- especially to see the crow's feet and wrinkles. Or even worse. Cellulite?!

OK, so that's shallow. Or, is it?

Didn't you dream of having all your T's crossed and I's dotted? Didn't you imagine a good career, family, and success were all going to be handed to you in a neat box with a bow on top?

It worked for all my peers that were driven and focused (and quite honestly selfish) for what they wanted. 

It's easy to separate those that were driven from those that were lazy. But what about those in the middle?

The frozen ones.

The ones that had potential, but didn't know what they wanted. Those that knew how to work hard, but had no way to work hard for one thing because they couldn't decide on one thing.

Sadly, that makes you no different from the lazy ones in your 20s. Because, the real world needs results. And the frozen ones have none. We're stuck.

Stuck in jobs that we're over qualified for, or jobs that make us unhappy.