#2020ready

Still #2020ready YaHeard!!!!! #KeepItMoving #keepbelieving #doyounoharm (at New Orleans, Louisiana) https://www.instagram.com/p/CAbR0gZFUop/?igshid=1u22ubdv2k1z7

I used to think that in order to belong I had to sit at that kinda table. So if you’re sitting at the table where the topic of conversation is someone else’s shortcomings, mistakes, imperfections, flaws or lawd the he-said-she-said gossip... I assure you that when you leave your seat, you’re likely the next topic of conversation. GIRL, GET A NEW TABLE! FIND A NEW SEAT, where confidence is served like cake, LAUGHTER is a side dish and conversation that raise the bar is the main course... and there is absolutely no room left on the plate to speak ill of others. (Published by Katy Ursta on August 15, 2019, TODAY Parenting Team community) #mondaymotivation #wordstoremember #mood #mantra #2020ready #nomorefuckstogive #bitchplease https://www.instagram.com/p/B9gLNp7hpQn/?igshid=w2v0sb6p5t74

Great meeting with Event Manager & Design Extraordinaire Angela Cooper with InnerG Consulting LLC. We have some great things happening this year! Getting excited about the doors that are opening! #djism317 #djlife #wereadyindy #2020ready #eventplanner #eventdesign (at Panera Bread) https://www.instagram.com/p/B8sEC-0nqy_/?igshid=1723l6jzcprba

So gooooddd!! Thank you Jerold and Ying!! Miss you guys!! #2020ready #food #foodie #foodporn #friendsarethebest https://www.instagram.com/p/B7yX0UYB9ik/?igshid=coa4crrsbkko

TWENTY-TWENTY VISION This is the decade where I lost all control of the plan I made at 17. This was the decade I found myself in a life so strange, I could barely keep up, let alone hold onto my identity. This decade, I got engaged, got hit and got dumped. This decade I wrote a book and got rejected and wrote other things that got turned into a book without my asking. This decade I stepped up onto stage and I shone. This decade I was silenced and I made that silence my most deafening statement ever. This decade I birthed a community and watched it grow and wither and hit back and die and be reborn. This decade I fought patriarchy and religion politics. This decade my world was ravaged by MeToo and CAA. In the last year of this decade, I turned 40. The official onset of middle age. The last lap of my long-term life plan. This year I remembered Y2K after recounting it as an anecdote to slightly bemused Gen Y kids wanting a career in digital. I truly have no life plan any more. But how well did what I had, stack up against recessions, economic busts, terrorism and wokeness? It kept me calm long enough to deal with uncertainty. It gave me the courage to venture into new things. It allowed me to carry purpose. It was a useful crutch for the lessons I had to learn and now it's gone. Maybe I don't need it anymore. Either way, I've already lived nearly half a life and accumulated some things, not the least of all - conviction. Here's to another twenty years. Share it with me, with dignity, joy & power? #theideasmithy #2020ready #newyear #lifeisgood #saree #sareelove #lipstick #lipstickjunkie #ikat #ikatprint #jhumkas https://www.instagram.com/p/B7hwxrFJT75/?igshid=1v8cto1gozrd7

Wait for someone who keeps you sane, but also drives you crazy in all the right ways. #2020ready #loveislove #waitingforhim #happybitch #bitchplease #thisbitchrighthere #imthatbitch https://www.instagram.com/p/B7WHod0h--q/?igshid=18ao1j3yp3ce4

My Yammy is back from Canada with this @theofficialpandora Charm 🧡 Love you @yammercado 🥳 Happy 2020!!! #friendsarethebest #friendsforever #teammsb #2020ready https://www.instagram.com/p/B7WGZqLBWXU/?igshid=kt9g1n8k3hpw

Thank you @sarahroxas ❤️❤️❤️ Happy 2020! ☺️ #friendsarethebest #friendsforever #cutiepatootie #2020ready https://www.instagram.com/p/B7WGBGSBZhN/?igshid=i7cap3kenq2c