I hate to be a party pooper and like I get that people are allowed to celebrate surviving 2020 and find small amounts of positivity in what might have been the most stressful year on earth but these "Congratz you survived 2020" memes I feel are a bit of a pressure for those who are grieving to be allowed to process it in peace and feel valid in doing so and that toxic positivity leads to disenfranchisment of exactly how fucked up the whole situation and I think it's important for me to be slightly critical of it even if it's a passing thought.









