âFrom #2Chairz to #Co-Chairâ - EJ Fernandez, FASAÂ â18-â19 Co-President
To All The FASA Nerds Iâve Loved
Being on board is one of the greatest birthday gifts Iâve ever received (second to my first Gameboy on my 7th birthday). Iâm posting this on the day of my birthday because Iâm ready to accept a new chapter of my life but sad to leave behind everything that has impacted me.
Being FASA Co-President was definitely something I never imagined for myself. It was an endeavor that changed a lot of how I view myself and everything around me. Iâll never forget being âtrickedâ into joining FASA, showing up to a Battle practice and getting guilt-tripped to stay âtil the very end (lol before the next practice I wildly debated ever going back, so you can imagine what I ended up doing). And tbh, to be trapped in a room with a bunch of strangers forced to dance âtil the break of dawn for multiple days, Iâm grateful for the experience and all the people I met. Iâve learned so much about the people around me and grown even more closer to my identity, attending workshops, learning dances, and meeting new people from across the Midwest.
Much to my surprise and everyone else, running for FASA Executive Board (twice!) is still and will always be a surprise to me. I loved learning all about the people around me and how FASA has impacted each and every one of them. During my time as Techtorian (btw itâs not dead, just in disguise #insertScoobyDooMeme #TechtorianForever), I learned a lot about the history and development of FASA, discovering and exploring as much of the FASA Archives as I can muster. I saw the smiles and laughter that FASA brought to peopleâs faces through the generations and today. Being behind the camera was always lonely for me but I enjoyed every second of it. Now, being more involved as FASA Co-President brought a new joy and excitement in my life as I got to be in the front-end of the experience. The hard work and effort it took to make sure things went smoothly and effortlessly was something that I enjoyed from start to finish. Itâs a thankless task that I took pride in, knowing that my effort means someoneâs happiness. (Itâs always a yes from me dawg).
During my term as Co-President, Iâve learned a lot. At first you think itâs easy and you get the perks of being president (flexing your power on others and getting that look of admiration from people when you mention it to them), but tbh, itâs a rough time ngl. Balancing not only the responsibilities of FASA but also my own career and my own health. Understanding that people wonât take you seriously unless you give them a reason to believe. Learning that not everyone is going to be happy for the things you do and that people will be critical of what and how you do things. Facing criticism with a grain of salt and not taking it personally. Working with multiple people with such different perspectives, beliefs, and passions and trying to mitigate that was no easy task. Doing what you can and acknowledging your limits. Learning from your mistakes and moving past them.
I know Iâm not perfect and I made decisions that others would disagree with. It was never easy for me, both physically and mentally, but I had to make sure everyone and everything was doing well. I worked really hard and tried my best to keep the values of FASA true to heart and encourage growth and change for everyone. A lot of things happened this year, but in the end, I donât regret any of it. Itâs a learning process.
But I loved it. I loved being President. It has it perks from time to time, but being FASA President was a lot of work and a huge time investment, something that not anyone can just do and wing it. Being FASA President means more than just being the leader, the one who calls the shots and gets things done, or being the face of FASA. As FASA President, you live and breathe everything FASA. Itâs not enough to just know your responsibilities but you have to live your life as a FASA member. The FASA Preamble means a lot more than people give it credit for. You will face challenges, some of which you never get over, but you must be prepared to take them on.Â
But you never have to do this alone. Your executive board is there for you as much as you have to be there for them. Communication and transparency become important to how you lay down the foundation of trust you have with your board. You give them expectations and work with them to go above and beyond. You make sure that they have the support they need, and they give back the support you need. Above everything, take care of yourself. The best person to give you support is yourself. Know your limits and stay strong.Â
In the end, have fun with it. Being on board is a full time job but life-long experience. Never forget it and never regret it.
My board has experienced their ups and downs, but theyâve worked hard to keep FASA a home away from home for everyone. Theyâve always been there to keep me on my toes and subvert my expectations. Thanks for all the laughs and headaches from the stresses of events to the memes and games we had. I wished the best of luck to you guys and you will always hold a special place in my heart.
To my Co-Chair, Jean, thank you for giving me the strength to keep going and being my yin to my yang. Weâve complimented each other in more ways than we realize and I appreciate having someone like you by my side, working for an organization that means so much for us. Youâve been there when Iâm falling short and never doubted our partnership for a second. You will always be my Co and my Sib. #HAMSLAM
As I end my term with grace and dignity, Iâm excited for whatâs to come for me. From all the stress, the sleepless nights, and the never-ending snooping (ăťĎ<), Iâm never not gonna miss it. Just know that FASA will never leave my mind (cuz theyâre living in my attic).
Thanks for all the financial aid you have given me, FAFSA, and thanks for all the love you have given me, FASA. I canât wait to see how you grow and change. <3
- edge ( > âăť)
âThatâs the good thing about being president, I can do whatever I want.â -BARACK OBAMA











