favorite moments in the iconic bathroom scene?
God, I love that whole scene start to finish. Thereās so many perfect momentsāso Iām just gonna break down my love for the whole scene if thatās okay?
First, we get this longshot of Dean in the restaurant where Beth took him to dinner. I love this because it sets up such a nice contrast between the place Beth chose and Rioās bar.Ā
This restaurant is white and neutral and cleanāmuch brighter, fancier, but also emptier. Itās a nice restaurant, but it feels sparse and barren in comparison. Who knows what the music in this scene is. Itās so nondescript that when you try to Shazam it, it just registers āSmall Cocktail Party Atmosphereā noisesāi.e. only the sounds of the various people chitchatting in the background of the scene. All of this just emphasizes the state of Beth and Deanās marriageāwhich is boring and empty.Ā
Then we get this jolting changeĀ to the pair of them in Rioās bar. Now, I didnāt watch this on live TV, but Iāve never gotten the sense that thereās a commercial break between those two shots? The shift between those two scenes is almost jarring, especially when we go from that quiet sort of background music to the louder hip-hop/rap music of Young Fathers. Itās darker in here and packed full of peopleāparticularly younger people. There are a lot of hipsters here. This is not Bethās usual scene.
Maybe Dean realizes that, but it doesnāt seem like he does. He just pretends that he finds the place āsuper dope,ā emphasizing just how much he doesnāt fit in here either, as well as the fact that heās oblivious that heās already messed up his chances for the night with his āwe each have our own superpowerā speech. Heās still optimistic that this is going well.
And then he asks her where she found this place, and Beth could tell him anythingāthat Annie likes it, that she found a review onlineābut she says, āA friend.ā
And I love that because sheās about to show us just how much she doesnāt view him as (just) a friendābut that first she claims him as one anyway, because the opening scene in 2x04 does establish them with a sense of camaraderie that we havenāt seen between them before when Rio wants to celebrate with her. Even lying and calling him a friend here as an answer to Deanās question shows that thereās been a marked shift between 2x01 and 2x04 in terms of Bethās feelings about Rioāmore of an acceptance than a reluctance to acknowledge his place in her life.Ā
If Rio hadnāt reappeared on the scene and pulled them back in at the end of 2x01, I believe thereās a real possibility that Beth would have returned to normal life. Sheās nervous when he reappears. She tries to leave the park before he finds her. Sheās shocked in that scene, both by Marcus and by what heās asking her to do. In 2x02, sheās resigned and vulnerable and afraid. In 2x03, they have the nice scene at the park where he tells her to be a boss bitch, but thereās still a distance, both physical and emotional, between them. She sits as far away from him as possible on that bench.Ā
That gap between them finally closes here at the bar, and I love that this line calling him a āfriendā is the only verbal cue of that shift in a scene that is otherwise so powerful for its silence.Ā
Dean, however, is anything but silent in his role in this scene. Dean complains about the how the āservice lacks a little professionalismā in a bar, where heās perfectly capable of getting up and standing in line like everybody elseābut of course, Dean sees anything but being waited on hand and foot as some sort of personal offense. How dare he be inconvenienced, right? Plus, Dean complaining about āprofessionalism,ā when heās had affairs with his employees on top of his desk in his glass office? Whatās that saying about throwing stones while living in glass houses???
And god, I love how easily Beth catches Rioās eye once she notices him. Itās like he feels her looking at him, and he looks at her, and his face doesnāt even register surprise. And sheās adorable fiddling with her hair, and Iām lowkey obsessed with the way he like smacks his lips open and closed over his teeth as he swallows his drink.Ā
I know people love this scene for the fuck-me eyes theyāre shooting at each other, but I didnāt even register that the first time because itās so brief? I love how brief it is, because it just underpins how much theyāre on the same wavelength. They donāt need to draw it out here. They just know.
Beth disappears the moment she makes eye contact with him, and he just shifts his hips on that stool because sheās unsettling him (and because heās a little turned on). I love imagining Rioās walk to that bathroomāhow he mustāve been intrigued and a little confused and very pleasantly surprised to find it unlocked, because as much as I imagine heās imagined getting Beth into bed, I donāt think he could have ever dreamed this would be the scenario. It just underscores her capacity to surprise him, which is the exact reason heās drawn to her in the first place (!!!!)
I love the way Beth looks at herself in the mirror, because she knows what sheās about to doāwhich means she knows, sheās confident that Rio will follow herābecause it means sheās certain that heās going to accept her invitation (because she would never do this if she wasnāt positive he was going to reciprocate). All of her denials of that electric charge between them falls away. She allows herself to admit that she knows that heās attracted to her. That sheās attracted to him, too.
I love the way Rio comes in, how he looks out the door as he closes it, as if scanning to see if theyāre safely alone. The way he doesnāt lock the door because heās still not sure, and thatās up to her. The way he stands across from her, waiting. The way I read his face as looking at her, almost challenging her, to see what sheāll do next, because heās still not convinced itās happening.Ā
And Beth turns around and she walks toward him, and thereās this moment in the shot thatās one of my absolute favorite moments of this whole scene, and itās when they seem to be eye-to-eye? Theyāre level with each other, as if theyāre the same height when Rio is actually half a foot taller than Beth. It is just so symbolic of them being on even footing.Ā
And then Rio does the same thing that he does in 2x09, which is inch closer an closer to her even though he wonāt make the first move. He just wants to make the leap as easy as possible for herālike he wants it to be easy for her to kiss him, so heāll make his lips as close as he can to hers and just wait.
And then she just locks the door.
God, and then she just walks over to the sink and hikes up her dress and invites him to fuck her, and the positioning is so significant because:
Despite everything and all the ways that theyāre closing the gap, thereās still something holding them back, so she chooses an impersonal position that allows them not to be face-to-face, and
Itās a position that emphasizes that she wantsĀ him to fuckĀ her,Ā like itās an invitation forĀ himĀ to do the work to please her and impress her and pleasureĀ her, and
Itās a position where Beth stays standing, exactly like sheās been standing on her whole two feet this entire episode, and it underscores the balance of power between them in a position that I thinkĀ typicallyĀ andĀ conventionallyĀ suggests the man having power over the woman, but thatās subverted here?
And then thereās the way he looks at her in the mirror, and itās often described as reverent, and no wonder, because it takes him a second to even react, to start moving towards her? Thereās hesitancyĀ there? He blinks and his eyes flick up but donāt meet hers in the mirror because heās shocked. Even though she confirmed she wanted to fuck him in a public restroom when she locked the door, the way she wants him to fuck herāwithout words, from behindāis yet another surprise! Like damn, how many more ways can she floor him in one scene?
One of my very favorite parts of this scene is him splaying his hand on her thigh. And for so many different reasons! He could touch her anywhere, and itās the thigh? I love that. Itās sort of sexy and forbidden in the way that most people donāt go around touching each otherās thighs, but itās not exactly obscene, you know? This is a quickie, it has to be, but he knows that doesnāt mean it has to lack any build-up and tensionāheās not skipping over the pleasure of being able to reallyĀ touch her for the first time.
Also, the splaying of the fingersāitās like he needs as much of her as possible underneath his hands immediately. He needs to feel her. Heās tapped her, ghosted his fingers across her face, and slid his hand across her shoulders briefly before this, but this is lingering and full, not done by half measures. When he finally gets to touch her like this, you can tell how much and how long heās wanted to in the flex of his fingers as he seems to be pulling her back into him as he presses himself against her. He wants them to be as close as possible.Ā
And then thereās just this juxtaposition between the ways heās being gentle with her and the ways heās being rough with her? I mean, heās about to bend her over and fuck her against a bathroom sink in front of a dirty mirror, right? But then his hand moves to her breast, but itās so⦠soft? Like heās still testing her boundaries? And then he buries his head in her neck, and she just sinks into it? And then you get this shot of them in the mirror, and heās not even at her neck, not reallyāso he must just be⦠biting her shoulder? And then her head falls forward like she canāt even control herself, sheās just given herself completely over to sensations, and then he yanks down her panties like that?!
I donāt know. Iām obsessed with the fact that his knees are bent into hers here, because Iām like, how much closer can you possibly get? Oh right. Much closer. But then he doesnāt even finish taking the panties off of herāshe sort of has to kick them off? So weāre reminded again that she wants it?Ā
I die when he seems to almost roughly move his hand from her spine to her shoulder to push her forward, that they then just give us a perfect shot of her hand gripping the counter tightly as she prepares for him to fuck her in the way she wants to be fucked.
And then itās this return to Dean and her in the car, his incessant chatter, unable to read her yet again after Rio has read everything so perfectly. And Beth looks down at her lap and she readjusts her dress and itās this moment of power, this secret she has. She is satisfied, both sexually and emotionally, by crossing that line. She looks like she feels a little heady with power, and I am into it!
And then when we return to the bathroom, thereās been a position change. Theyāre getting closer, allowing themselves to be face-to-face now, but still not talking, still refusing to look each other in the eyes. And I am straight up obsessed with this, because I know Rio wanted to watch her face in that mirror (can you imagine? He absolutelyĀ wanted to see the faces he could get her to make) and I know Rio wants to kiss her (he was waiting for it when she faked him out and locked the door), but heās following her lead and heās trying not to spook her. Iāve always been convinced that he knows how fragile this scenario is, that it could slip through his fingers at any moment, and that he made a conscious decision to avoid doing anything to risk that happening.Ā
And theyāre as close as they can be, right? Heās driving into her, his entire upper body is pressed against her entire upper body, heās holding up her legs, and sheās gripping his shoulder for stability, but thereās still the barrier of their clothesātheyāre not completely vulnerable with each otherāand Beth tries as much as possible to touch him as little as possible, trying to make it so just the tips of her fingers seem to flutter along his shoulder. Just wow. Every piece of this scene is as complex and rich as their entire relationship is.
I mean, look at her fingers hereājust. Ugh.Ā
And then thereās the scene where he pulls back from her and then just comes back to her with full force, and her mouth does that, and her hand flies to the paper towel dispenser, which releases a stream of paper towels as she tumbles over the edge, and I love it because she is precarious at that moment. Heās stopped gripping her legs to hold her up because his hand has moved to the back of her head, so her knees fly up all over the place and she just loses control in all senses of the wordābut sheās fine, because somehow, despite the fact that heās not holding her up anymore, Rioās got her.Ā
And then it ends back in the car with Dean asking her if she needs anything? Nah. Sheās good.Ā
Like, whew. What a scene. I honestly think itās the best sex scene Iāve ever seen on TVāso like whatās gonna happen when they give us one where there are not so many walls between them?