"not that important"
can we talk about how the weird media flirtation about pronouns and gendered word use and resorting to laughing quip safety with statements like this is literally how I handled my own sexual identity for about five or six years before I was in a position where I could deal with it in public and still how I handle it in uncertain waters
can we talk about how I get that I'm projecting but also this is so important to me as a behavioral mode
can we talk about how I in no way identify with Harry generally, we've talked about this, I'm a Niam, but like, he keeps doing and saying things that make me go "yes. yes, exactly. yes"















