Step fourteen - A friend of mine Yesterday, A friend mine from the ages of college, put in his facebook that he closed his cyber cafe after 10 years. He was almost the same situation than me when we graduation. After the college, he stood in the same town and doing the same things, he always wants work in the are of graduation and move from his little town (he always had more passion in IT than me, but he wants the same of me in that time), but for some reasons that life give for each one of us, he stood in his town, bought an apartment and "married with his girlfriend from the time of college". In the last year, a friend of mine who lives in the capital visited him and he confided his frustrations, that he lives isn't change after all and he wants something more like everybody feels in the same point of life or almost one time of week/days. Now, he closed his business and work in the new area that wasn't his dreams and I think he is going to be forever in the same town that one day he managed to live. Why I writing this? Because, he cases remember similar things that I feel too and this show me that the future can't be what we dream, but we can adjust the present for new ways of the future and I always be grateful of the lessons that the past gave to me. We need to be more like Frances in the final of the movie Frances Ha, leave to live the past, adapt the future and live the present the best way.
