#-meow

Hey,

we have a message from you in our drafts. It seems like Jen wants to answer it so I will leave it there for her.

I am sorry that he hurt you in that way, this is awful. Did you tell someone about what happened? If not, please tell someone. You shouldn’t deal with this on your own. Did you contacted the police after what happened? If not, I seriously recommend doing that. He shouldn’t get away with this like that. I know it is scary to tell someone about what happened and to report it to the police, but you have to do this, for yourself and for the people he might hurt in the future. If he did this to you, he is capable of doing this to someone else as well. Don’t let it get that far, reach out for help, please.

If I was in your position I wouldn’t even tell him that I don’t want to talk to him anymore, I would just stop talking to him. If someone did this to me, they wouldn’t even be worth my time explaining why I don’t want to have contact with them anymore. But not everyone can just do this, we’re not the same. You can tell him that you don’t want to talk to him anymore. You can name a reason, but you don’t have to. And you have every right to cut off the contact. How he reacts to that, well that’s his problem. If he gets agressive towards you and hurts you, contact the police and report him for that as well.

Please speak up about what happened, don’t try to deal with this on your own. I know this is scary, but you have to stand up for yourself. And in this case, not only for yourself, like I said, he could hurt other people as well, that’s why you should report him so that this doesn’t happen.

Please take care of yourself!

Hi Meow! I know you sent this in a while ago. I hope you’re doing good and I hope the holidays treated you well. Congrats on your engagement!!!! Thank you for checking in on us <3

I haven't gone to the doctor for all this. Because every time I called them to make an appointment they told me that I needed more than just 2 reasons. And the one week that I had them all I couldn't even get up for an appointment. Part 2

I feel just as sick as that one day. I could get out of bed, but not further than the couch. I don't know what to do... Help? Part 3 ~Meow

Hi Meow,

I’m so sorry you’re going through this and feeling so physically ill. That sounds really unpleasant and uncomfortable, especially since you’ve been experiencing this for an entire year. That’s a long time to be feeling physically unwell. You deserve to feel better.

I’m not a professional so I can’t diagnose you, but it sounds like you may have some kind of autoimmune disorder. Autoimmune disorders often present with joint pain, chronic fatigue, and several of the other symptoms you mentioned. These symptoms can come on suddenly, can develop over long periods of time, and come and go.

With that being said, I think it’s ridiculous that the doctor would tell you that you can only make an appointment if you have “more then two reasons.” If I were you, I’d contact a different doctor, because that’s unacceptable. You don’t need more then two reasons to go see a doctor. Whoever told you that should be ashamed of themselves. You should be able to see a doctor any time you want, if you have even one concern. Can you try contacting a different doctor when you are feeling up to it and explain all of your symptoms to them? Tell them exactly what you told me: that you’ve been having headaches, dizziness, etc for over a year now. A good, professional doctor should see you as soon as possible and should take you seriously instead of giving you silly stipulations like, “You have to have more then two reasons.”

Hi love, sorry for the late response! How have you been since you sent this message in? How have things been with this guy that asked you out?

I know that it must’ve been really flattering to hear those things and to be asked out, but it’s a little concerning that he is 17 and you’re 13. Four years might not seem like much of an age difference, but it is when you’re a teenager. The differences between a 17 year old and 13 year old can be drastic.

Plus how do you know he is who he says he is? I met my boyfriend online, so I’m not against meeting people online, you just have to be safe about it and always be alert and cautious. So please just be careful, love. If he starts pressuring you to do anything, like asking you to send him naked pictures or anything like that, please don’t feel obligated to do so. If he requests anything like that, that shows that he’s not a very good person and you deserve better then that. Or if you decide to meet him in person, please do so in a public area with friends around to be safe.

Plus, like you mentioned, you have a fiancé. What did you say to this guy that asked you out?