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frankly I'm even getting tired of people saying "trans mascs" to include trans men but then saying trans mascs arent necessarily men

i imagine its easy to envy the hyper visibility of trans women especially to interpret it as solely positive attention, especially when you have no idea what kind of attention trans women are facing and having to put up with constantly

I wish I knew how we survived everything we lived through

I really dont understand when antis reply in conversation by going "im literally a victim of xyz, how dare you say that to someone who's a victim" as if they themselves are a fictional character with a backstory on fandom.com we're all able to read

I hope the conversation stays as "ships/headcanons arent activism" instead of getting shorted-handed to "fandom isn't activism" because while i agree with both statements, it feels like an easy way to just ignore bigotry (racism especially) within fandom

what annoys me the most about this (aside from the unchecked rampant transmisogyny) is the singlet accounts who insert themselves into this conversation are just performing support for systems. they have only learned about systems in so far as being able to justify harassment of a stranger. that's all it was ever about