I have officially been seeing clients for ten years.
I had my first client at just twenty-one years old.
After doing the math, I’ve had the privilege of sitting with more than 700 people throughout my career—witnessing both mundane and life-altering moments. The joys and sorrows. The struggles and triumphs. The moments people celebrate, and the moments they aren’t sure they’ll make it through.
Every person, couple, and family is unique—which is why therapy could never be a “one size fits all” process.
That’s one of the things I love most about this work: helping people make sense of their experiences and figure out what actually works for them.
Most of my clients have probably heard me say some version of this phrase half a dozen times:
“There is no right or wrong here. Just different.”
Different people need different things. They have different preferences. Different relationships have different dynamics. Different seasons of life call for different choices.
This blog is a place to explore some of those differences—and to help you navigate the challenges life inevitably brings with curiosity, resilience, faith, and a little perspective.
Because after ten years of doing this work, I know one thing for certain:
I will never know exactly what is going to happen in someone’s life. And I certainly won’t always know what the “right” answer is.
But with a curious framework, the right questions, and a little patience, I can help you get clearer about what does work for you.
And sometimes, getting clearer is where everything starts.
