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I have officially been seeing clients for ten years.

I had my first client at just twenty-one years old.

After doing the math, I’ve had the privilege of sitting with more than 700 people throughout my career—witnessing both mundane and life-altering moments. The joys and sorrows. The struggles and triumphs. The moments people celebrate, and the moments they aren’t sure they’ll make it through.

Every person, couple, and family is unique—which is why therapy could never be a “one size fits all” process.

That’s one of the things I love most about this work: helping people make sense of their experiences and figure out what actually works for them.

Most of my clients have probably heard me say some version of this phrase half a dozen times:

“There is no right or wrong here. Just different.”

Different people need different things. They have different preferences. Different relationships have different dynamics. Different seasons of life call for different choices.

This blog is a place to explore some of those differences—and to help you navigate the challenges life inevitably brings with curiosity, resilience, faith, and a little perspective.

Because after ten years of doing this work, I know one thing for certain:

I will never know exactly what is going to happen in someone’s life. And I certainly won’t always know what the “right” answer is.

But with a curious framework, the right questions, and a little patience, I can help you get clearer about what does work for you.

And sometimes, getting clearer is where everything starts.

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as wild as the sound of it, hadvar had once believed her the goddess, kyne. the gildergreen had been restored, the dragon-soul eater had done so with a priestess's blessing. even the foot soldier heard of its glory. when given temporary rest, he had found her at the shrine at the bottom of the eldergleam. the sanctuary from which kynareth's tree provided the new sapling now in whiterun's market.

now he has returned to shrine, with the lady of light in tow. the winter in skyrim is harsh, and it hounds their bones with its sharp winds and soft flakes. they run into the opening of the evergleam's cavern before it can bury them under snow.

the little spring inside had frozen. they grasp hands and try to cross by sliding and nearly fall onto the small field beside it. hadvar tries not to laugh from his embarrassment, but it mustn't be too bad, for his grin is ear to ear. "eva — "

The world is loud today. Can we just be quiet together for a minute. / for haddy ! from @fatewalkr ❤️