#@personaldevelopment

This is our last day of our discussion in PerDev. And the last topic we discuss there are all about building and establishing harmonized relationship with family and monitoring one's career development.I learn a lot of new terms there and able to understand the importance of family.In monitoring one's career development. I understand there is that when choosing a career personality matters.

This day we discuss about building and establishing harmonized relationship with the society/community. By this lesson I able to recall what are the things I've done to our community.And honestly,I'm not really active on it. I just support a little help or maybe just a cooperation if needed. The important for me is that I contribute something than nothing.

Today,I have a lot of things I learn on our subject Personal Development.The topic so far is very interesting and somehow applicable in our daily lives.There,we discuss about building and establishing relationship with others.With this topic I,personally understand the value of love there and the relationship as well.I able as well in this day what Love Language I belong through Love Language Test.And Yes I could tell that the result is fact. And by this , I understand now why sometimes I do not appreciate and value an expression of love to others. And also why some people did not appreciate an expression of love that I give to them.But,the important thing now is that I already aware of it and if in case I meet a person or might be partner I will apply this lesson because I believe this is a big help in building relationships with others.

JOURNAL ENTRY #10

Source: https://news.continuingstudies.wisc.edu/talking-with-your-supervisor-about-career-goals/

MARCH 17, 2021

People all over the world have ambitions, hopes, and aspirations, whether they are adolescents, kids, or adults. Typically, their preferences change as they mature. It is due to the fact that people of different ages have different needs and opinions. It's fascinating how, when you grow older, you start to think about stuff you wouldn't usually think about. Regardless of how difficult it would be, most people would do their utmost to fulfill their ambitions, aspirations, and dreams.

When I was about five years old, I wanted to be a billionaire, as I assume most people did. Money is formidable because it helps you to buy many items, such as vehicles, homes, and utilities, as well as fly around the world. Nonetheless, money has the ability to fulfill people's needs. If you have money, you can do whatever you want to make yourself happy. That was my view when I was younger. When I became a fourteen-year-old student, the most essential thing I want to do in my existence is to marry and have a happy family, yes, I was a hopeless romantic. I've always imagined my wedding and my ideal life after marriage since I was just a little girl. There was a part of me that longs to be settled and to have someone next to me who cares for me. But another part of me is afraid of losing my freedom and not being really loved. It’s hilarious how I thought of this things. 

These are just the things that I considered as short-term goals. Setting goals provides me with both long-term and short-term motivation. It also gives us the opportunity I need to seek bigger and more daunting goals. Achieving goals and constantly reminding myself of them makes me feel like I'm working harder to reach them. Setting goals and planning about my career is crucial for success, in my view. I've set several goals for myself, some of which I've met, but many of which I'm still working on.

One of my goals in life is to become more concentrated and structured in my learning environment. I want to be able to better balance my time when it comes to caring for my family, working, education, and other facets of my life. It is challenging for me to do this while still completing all of my daily responsibilities. For the second time this semester, I'm taking an online class. This has encouraged me to spend more time with my family, which is especially important during their formative years. I still have more freedom to learn through my own time.

Another important aspect of achieving success in life is education. It is difficult to accomplish the skills required in the world without some form of education. This presents me to my next goal: graduating from college. I want to progress from a learning student to a professional worker. To provide the best possible life for my families, I will need to graduate school and begin my career so that I will have the funds to do so while also setting a good example for them. 

We need to keep this in mind that goals are a way of life, and they are what keep each person's life interesting. The accomplishments of major goals are frequently the result of the accomplishments of much smaller goals.

This is the the last day of our discussion.And our topic is all about Focusing on the Psychological Health.This lesson really interpret the concept of psychological health and also mental health well-being especially in identifying our own vulnerabilities.

This lesson truly contribute a good information especially when it talks about in creating a plan to stay mentally healthy during adolescence.By this it can make me more manageable of my healthy lifestyle as an adolescent.

This day we only discuss one topic.And that topic we had discussed is all about encountering stress as part of adolescence. And mostly the essential questions in that topic are What is stress?Where does it came from?And What are mostly the effects of stress?And lastly,How can one cope with this?Those essential questions are answered and well explained by our teacher. And the thing that I've learn there is that no matter stress you may have just keep moving forward instead giving up.

On this day our teacher discuss two lessons.And I think It's somehow tiring to listen because there are many information we should learn and know.However,it turns into entertaining.It is, because,I really enjoy listening on it and entertain even more about this subject PERDEV.

On lesson 2 the main lesson there talks about being mindful with the self. And I able to learn there the 5 areas of Personal Development.Those 5 areas help me to realize that It is not easy in becoming mindful with the self and it is not easy to fully develop our personality.There are some areas on it not 100% applied.That's why it is really helpful information I've got since it helps me to become more mature.

On the next topic we had discuss,it looks even more interesting to listen since it talks about us adolescent.Our teacher discuss there 3 stages of adolescence,and upon looking in the presentation we able to determine what stages we are now.And,we are on the late adolescence.I can't even imagine that the stage of my adolescence nearly ended.Truly,this topic focusing more about adolescence stage.And with that two hours of listening,it is somehow enough for me to realize that this subject is truly interesting.

This day we are not able to discuss another topic since we do have sharing of our output we've made yesterday.I able to share what I suppose to share,which talk about an object that may describe me.

On my classmates output, I really enjoy listening every detail of their life they told to us. I really get have some learning to them about the side of their life that I don't know.I am blessed and thankful to God that I've know them more,even though it just an online.

I'm really grateful to our teacher initiating this activity.I gain some confidence from it.I somehow admit that this is one of the best activity I ever wanted in Senior high joirney.