Everybody knows I hate liars but one thing I hate even more than liars is people who accuse me of lying. When I was younger I had a phrase “he who believes the liar becomes the liar” which is virtually true in every sense.
I am so fucking sick of being accused of lying/doubted/ constantly! I am ALWAYS proved right & even then people don’t have the basic human decency to apologize & be like “Oh I’m so sorry, you were right” or “you were right I should have listened to you” or “maybe this wouldn’t have happened to me if I listened to you in the first place” I never get anything like that.
I am CONSTANTLY proved right and multiple people but especially Paul keep getting themselves into situations or fucking things up because they don’t believe me. Even if I ask for an apology or if I say something like “I told you that….” Or “I told you that 6 times, I’ve never lied to you” it’s always met with something like “oh ya cuz you’re so smart *scoff*” or “oh yeah you’re just fucking perfect aren’t you” or “shut the fuck up all you do is bitch”
So then usually I say “I’m sick of being accused of lying, I told you (…………) etc & you didn’t believe me, so now (……..) happened & you won’t even apologize for accusing me of lying”
“Nobody said you’re a fucking liar you stupid bitch”
“Umm yeah, you did when you didn’t believe me when I told you (…….) and now (……..) idk why you constantly think that I would lie to you when I hate liars, I’ve always been honest with you and it hurts me that you think I’m lying to you”
“SHUT THE FUCK UP MAN. SERIOUSLY MAN, ALL YOU DO IS BITCH AND MOAN nothing is ever good enough for you”
“I am just trying to help you and constantly doubt me or ignore me and look what happens every-time. I’m proven right once again and you can’t even apologize, that hurts”
“Well if you’re unhappy then leave, nobody is stopping you from fucking leaving get the fuck out of my life, go back to your ex if you’re so unhappy here. Find somewhere else to live….. go live with Brandon if I make you so unhappy here, nobody asked you to be here”
“you did, you begggged me to move in with you because you said you were soooooo in love with me, wanted to be with me, wanted to take care of me, and said that I shouldn’t have been paying so many bills by myself and that you wanted to help me out. I loved my place in Worcester, I had so many friends, and an amazing place and I always had people to hang out with but I left it all, along with 80% of my furniture and 100% of my friends and my grandparents to move 80 miles away with you, because you begged me”
“Oh shut the fuck up I never begged you, and your place was trash. Worcester is a horrible city & all you did was drink. I saved you, you would be dead right now if it wasn’t for me rescuing you.”
“Rescuing me??? From my own peaceful house with my 55 inch TV where I could watch my favorite shows unbothered before and after work, my gorgeous French doors, the pretty yellow walls & over 10 windows that let in the sunlight so the house was always bright every day, a safe neighborhood, my Lexus, work less than 5 miles away, all of my friends. Constantly going out to eat and drink, never having to wait in a line to get in a bar because the bouncers, cops, or owners always let me come straight thru in front of everybody else. Making $600-1500 a week when only working 2-3 days a week. I left all of that for YOU and look how you treat me”
It always always always goes like that, and I know the last part is a lot, but that’s actually almost word for word but with less words for what I say everytime he says he rescues me but everything up until the “I rescued you, you’d be dead if it wasn’t for me” part is constantly rehashed ALMOST DAILY!!!
It says in the Bible not to lie which is why I think that all liars are going to end up in hell, so I really hope that they change their hearts & accept Jesus into their hearts & apologize to him because if they were true Christians they wouldn’t lie, which is why I think they’re going to hell. You don’t ignore God or his rules. Even if you are not a Christian it is just a really, immensely shitty thing to do.
You don’t lie to people and you don’t accuse people of lying.
