Switching It Up

New Quinn over on his blogger.

I'm not sure owning his orgasms is it. I like and enjoy that his focus is on my pleasure, and I get a lot of fun out of teasing and denying him. There is pleasure in his suffering for me. Not sure what that says about me.

But I think the best thing is the intimacy, the kindness he has for me. He's chivalrous in chastity. More attentive. Treats me well, with a different intensity that reminds me of when we first met.

Sometimes I think he should do that without the cage... this is an issue I have.

And yet... he's right. He points it out all the time. When he's caged I give him WAY more sexual attention. I'm more horny. Attracted to him.

But why do we need a cage for that to happen?

Recently he's suggested we stop asking why and just enjoy it.