HicRic

- some wheelchair users can walk and/or stand, these people are called ambulatory wheelchair users

- some wheelchair users cannot walk or stand, these people are called non ambulatory wheelchair users

- some wheelchair users use their chair full time

- some wheelchair users use their chair part time

- some full time wheelchair users are ambulatory

- not all wheelchair users are paralyzed

- not all paralyzed people are wheelchair users, paralysis is a spectrum

- paralysis isn’t the only reason to be non ambulatory

- not all wheelchair users have problems with their legs

The reality is that the amount of help you get depends on a random wheel that the universe spins for you (the wheel dictates which people get to asses you and the amount of prejudice these people have, as well as the place you were born at, what you look like, what gender marker is on your files, how prone you are to weight gain, etc.)

In other words, the help you receive is never actually based on the help you DESERVE. I'm so sorry nobody is helping you. Sadly it is entirely unrelated to how mentally/physically ill you are, and instead is a result of the society we live in and it's blatant discrimination.