Spicy Isopod Zone

so what if I want to have total control over every single thing at all times. just let me lol

many things wrong with me. well at least i'm bisexual.

@elodieunderglass The grace. The poise.

The elegance. We should domesticate these and live with them beyond their original use case

the more time you spend in active recovery from any given self destructive behavior or addiction the more you understand the common conception of the "relapse" as defined by a broken "streak" to be, like, so bad for one's own well-being that it would be funny if it weren't resulting in just a lot of misery and death

I told my girlfriend to think of quitting vaping as training her endurance by seeing how long she can run before she gets tired, then doing it again and hoping to go further next time. She said it really helped her.

A reminder that the clothing of the Middle Ages was less brown (and the people were more brown) than often depicted.

I'm posting about this because as I am presented with sources within one of my classes about asexuality I see a complete lack of talk about pleasure and what it means within asexuality. There is this constant reaffirming of sex is what the allosexual partner wants (and the asexual partner is just doing it to make their allosexual partner happy) and it's deeply frustrating that we are defining sex around sexual attraction and not looking at the fact that sex should be defined around a whole range of things!