xoxo

 I feel like this is kind of a delicate issue among some SBs, some say: “You’d charge him for YOUR time?? Who the fuck do you think you are???” And others say: “Rinse him for every little penny he’s got.”

 I always ask for cash or gift. First dates are actually very lucrative for me, I set up the expectation and to keep my attention, he asks if I want to go shopping, or I get cash upfront, even a bouquet of flowers or a box of chocolates.

 Some men react badly, but I’m not interested in spending time with men with no recompense.

 Usually, I say something like this and paraphrase it as you will:

 “Hello, handsome, can’t wait for our date tonight! I hate asking because I’m worried you might be mad, but I feel like I can be honest with you- it would really be lovely if you gifted me with money or flowers or chocolates tonight. I’m the traditional romantic and I just want things to be perfect on our date. I really can’t wait to meet you, which reminds me: what kind of dress did you picture me in on first meeting? I’ve got something demure and lacy, or maybe something tight and red? ;p Let me know x”

 See how I put the suggestion of money in there, making it clear AND unclear as to whether I expect money itself. Sometimes they bring flowers instead, but mostly they get the hint.

 Also, put the request in with another question to distract him. The question has to be something that will: a) get his imagination/libido going b) make him rethink cancelling the date, which is how some dickheads react when asked for a gift.

 Butter him up, let him think he has control of the situation and, if he refuses: Don’t get mad, get sad- it confuses the opponent and he’ll probably end up buying you something.

Men: Get used to things bitches, we’re not changing.

Women: K. *make jokes about how shitty and selfish the average guy is in relationships in order to cope with real problems that most men will never fix*

“Ok, so:

Haircut: $90 minimum plus tip. Extra for styling

Full set mani & pedi: $80 minimum plus tip

Blow-out: $40+

Tanning: $80+

Waxing: $145+

Skincare and make-up needed to look killer 24/7: $800+ (Replaced often. I can make a detailed list if you would like.)

“Basic” lingerie set: $120+

“Killer” lingerie set $250+

“Cute and breezy” outfit: $500 minimum w/o accessories

“Evening” outfit: $800 minimum w/o accessories

One pair of sexy stilettos: $500 - $1,500 or more

One classic handbag: $500 - $2,000 or more

Time spent taking care of myself at the gym

Time spent making sure that I am SAFE and healthy while intimate and have what I need to be clear of disease and/or pregnancies

Time spent doing research and reading up on skills to look better, act better, please my man better etc.

Cost of food that doesn’t make me look or feel like shit (I have sensitive skin and bad food makes it look awful)

Time taken away from studying and my career which hasn’t taken off yet like my potential SD’s has

Time spent on the phone and texting

Time spent away from my own bed

Time spent in the car

Gas money (almost $3 per gallon at the moment)

Potentially extended time set aside for traveling

These are the MINIMUM amount of things that I must do and buy repeatedly for this lifestyle and to remain the type of SB that I chose to be. I do them dutifully and even love doing them for the right man. These things do not happen by osmosis, nor do they come out of anyone’s pocket but my own at the moment. These automatically take up my time and my $ and if I were to enter an arrangement with anyone he would receive the benefit of all of them in ADDITION to my doting companionship, my best conversation, my full attention, and in ADDITION to this fab pu$$y. A SB/SD relationship is NOT an even give-and-take, but a unique agreement (or transaction as some see it) of two very different people’s assets. I’ve set the starting value of mine and you’re shopping. Like what you see? You’ll need to pay full price. That’s the risk you must be willing to take. I shouldn’t even need to mention what it is that I stand to lose in a deal like this gone sour. Now man up or move along.”

In case some of you SBs weren’t aware of this, I came across the SALT and John version of tumblr.

Say hello to usasexguide.info

This is where Johns and Salt Wanna-be Daddies post reviews of any escorts or SBs they’ve been with, advice threads on how to scam SWs from their money, nudes of SWs and SBs that they’ve slept with and so forth. It’s full of filth so please beware. I made a fake account to join and keep tabs on these men to help filter out the salt from the sugar. I highly recommend you go on the site to familiarize yourself with the tricks these men try on us and to check if you yourself have become a topic of discussion on the site. Check for nudes as well.

THEY ARE SCREENSHOTING PROFILES & PERSONAL PICTURES FROM TEXT MESSAGES? I clicked onto to the site for 5 minutes and I saw a few Sugar Babies from Tumblr faces because the Salt POTs and former SDs posted it. 

So far I saw women from Seeking Arrangement, Craiglist ads, Bumble, Tinder, and POF face pictures and personal information (town, college, Linkedin and etc) Hence, this is not from a terrible experience they had, they are just posting women’s pictures, profiles and Instagram’s just for men to see and help the next man trick them.

Guess who just mandated video chat since POTs can’t keep anonymity? 

This is why you use fake numbers.

This is why you shouldn’t show your face in your profile. (I have in my private photos and then revoke access as soon as he has seem it)

This is why you screen.

This is why you never have unprotected sex.

This is why you secure the money before anything happens.

This is why you have to secure your social media.

“She can’t help herself”

“She just lives to be came-in”

“She wasn’t cheap, I came fast, but she’s a whore”

In case some of you SBs weren’t aware of this, I came across the SALT and John version of tumblr.

Say hello to usasexguide.info

This is where Johns and Salt Wanna-be Daddies post reviews of any escorts or SBs they’ve been with, advice threads on how to scam SWs from their money, nudes of SWs and SBs that they’ve slept with and so forth. It’s full of filth so please beware. I made a fake account to join and keep tabs on these men to help filter out the salt from the sugar. I highly recommend you go on the site to familiarize yourself with the tricks these men try on us and to check if you yourself have become a topic of discussion on the site. Check for nudes as well.

THEY ARE SCREENSHOTING PROFILES & PERSONAL PICTURES FROM TEXT MESSAGES? I clicked onto to the site for 5 minutes and I saw a few Sugar Babies from Tumblr faces because the Salt POTs and former SDs posted it. 

So far I saw women from Seeking Arrangement, Craiglist ads, Bumble, Tinder, and POF face pictures and personal information (town, college, Linkedin and etc) Hence, this is not from a terrible experience they had, they are just posting women’s pictures, profiles and Instagram’s just for men to see and help the next man trick them.

Guess who just mandated video chat since POTs can’t keep anonymity? 

This is why you use fake numbers.

This is why you shouldn’t show your face in your profile. (I have in my private photos and then revoke access as soon as he has seem it)

This is why you screen.

This is why you never have unprotected sex.

This is why you secure the money before anything happens.

This is why you have to secure your social media.

“She can’t help herself”

“She just lives to be came-in”

“She wasn’t cheap, I came fast, but she’s a whore”