If you can't be a rock and support, you aren't ready to be a dom. For that is what a dom is.
You don't have to be a hard, stoic and impervious all the time to be dominant. You do need a stable vision, secure heart and reliable presence.
Build room in your presence, and if you are lucky, a sub or lover will occupy you as their place of refuge.
Like other places of refuge, some may be fundamentally dangerous or chaotic. These places are only sanctuaries if they offer their protection in a way their wards can intuit reliably. If you can't know yourself, no one else can either.
I have heard many people say trust is the most important aspect of a kink or BDSM relationship.
It is the relationship.
It is the bridge that sustains dominance and submission.
It sustains security and devotion.
That's the fundamentals.
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Going in for some minor surgery where they still have to knock you out, and when you wake up you have absolutely ridiculous fake tit implants, your face has been remodelled, and you have lips that can only start being described as 'fetish content'
You try to ask about what happened, did they take you to the wrong surgical suite? And the nurse just says no, the surgeons just thought you would look better this way-- your tits were too small before and you looked too plain, so they fixed it, it's fine, your insurance covered it anyway
It isn't until later you discover they also modified your pussy so it's guaranteed to prominently cameltoe anything besides the loosest skirt or drop-crotch yoga pants, and somehow even a finger inside you makes you wetter than you ever remember being
As part of your recovery, you have to go through physiotherapy sessions and you keep saying how difficult it is to move around with these massive tits, and how much your pussy squishes between your thighs, and you try and tell the physios not to grope you-- they use their very calm, professional tones to explain that they need to ensure your body is okay, this is part of their clinical examinations
They make you get into a gynaecological examination chair so they can check your vulva for any worrying amounts of swelling or infection, and the surgeon comes by to check on their work. You're leaned back, and you can only barely see the top of their head
You feel fingers in you first, pressing in, testing your stretchiness, but you know that they shouldn't be squeezing and brushing your clit like that and you swear that's not someone's fingers inside you now, but the last thing you hear is the surgeon's voice telling a nurse that the patient is getting agitated and to give you something to calm you down, a few moments before your vision goes black and you go back to that hazy, dark, confusion place where you only get flashes of sensation every now and then, and you slowly come to later in your ward bed, feeling extremely wet and turned on, with a weird taste in your mouth the nurse assures you is just dry mouth which is a common reaction to a lot of painkillers and drugs
Every time you try and tell people you didn't want this, they just seem kind of confused, and keep just giving you pamphlets about trauma therapy, and offering to get the hospital councillor to come talk to you, but then your protests start getting frustrated responses and you hear the nurses talking to each other and one of the doctors about concerns you'll try and hurt yourself and that they think you might be experiencing some sort of psychosis, or maybe this is some sort of withdrawal symptom, or you're acting out for attention, and maybe they should think about putting you on a psychiatric hold for a bit...
They call your partner (who had to stay away during your initial recovery because of the risk of infection) and they arrive and you finally think you have an ally who will make them listen/understand what you're saying, they know you wouldn't have wanted this!
But when you're talking together, you notice their eyes keep dropping down to your lips or your tits, and they keep licking and biting their own, and they make non-committal noises every time you talk about how you didn't want to be made into some sort of slutty caricature...
Then you hear them talking with one of the nurses and they say they're concerned too, and the nurse says they can help rush through legal guardianship with the courts so that you have a legal caretaker who can look after them, since it's clear you're not fit to make decisions with your current mental state
When your partner finally brings you home, you see they've had to put a lot of locks around the house and they explain it's for your own safety, they and all the doctors and the court just want to make sure you're okay, and they're here to support you. And your partner has to make sure you take your medication and continue your recovery exercises because it's part of ensuring your health
They want you to get back to normal, and to maintain your previous routines as much as possible, and well-- you and your partner love each other so much, and you've always had high libidos... It's not their fault your new lips make it a lot harder to distinguish between a 'no' and a moan...
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I want to train someone to ahegao when they cum. Not because I find it especially hot, but because I feel like it would be extra humiliating for someone to start behaving less like a person and more like a hentai character.
You're just porn. And worse, you're not even real porn. You're behaving like a drawing.
Cockwarming that turns into slow cuddlefucking that turns into a deep creampie that turns into cockwarming that turns into slow cuddlefucking that turns into a deep creampie that turns into cockwarming
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