whaddup

soooo if youre not supposed to look back in anger how the fuck are you supposed to look back

one man's hyperfixation is another man's blocked tag

being understood isn’t enough. I want to feel seen, accepted, and cared for. Understanding means little if it isn’t applied through actions

you have to be able to defend people who are receiving unjust treatment even if they annoy you even if you personally find them extremely annoying you still have to be able to stand up and say "well thats fucked up"

the moral willpower required for "i hate their guts but my personal ethical standard is no xyz and i cannot set the precedent of making an exception for them" is imennse but important work

“I think you loved how much I loved you- not me.”

till deactivation do us part

im so sad this is from a deactivated blog i feel like i just found a heartfelt message in an old locket at a garage sale

i noticed my horrible patterns! i think the process stops there