Craving His Place

Training His Ass

FemDom and the Art of the Strap-On:

It’s important to remember that you need to break him in slowly as you train his ass to take the strap-on. You also need to fuck him frequently… at least 2-3 times a week… because between fuckings, his little bitch hole will naturally tighten back up on you. Having him wear a butt plug for an hour or longer before you strap him helps.

It also needs to be consistent so that you can get him in the right frame of mind. He needs to expect it and know it’s going to happen whether he likes it or not.

You want to stretch out his boy hole to the point where after you lube him up, and press the dildo up against it, there is that initial resistance to penetration, so that you have to kinda maintain the pressure, and then when you thrust forward it just kinda pops in and goes in most of the way in so that after a few minutes you can start fucking him with it without a lot of resistance or discomfort or pain.

Start out with a small, thin one. After a few weeks move up to a medium size one.

For the next few weeks alternate between both the small and the medium size one.

When he gets to the point where he can easily take the medium size one, it’s time to introduce him to the big one. remember that each time you transition up to a bigger, thicker dildo, it will be like his hole is virgin all over again. Be patient, but determined. He will feel some discomfort. That’s normal until his bitch hole opens up and adjusts to the new size.

After that, you just alternate between the small and the medium and the big one, depending on your mood and the kind of experience you want him to have.

The small one is for making love, and emotional bonding. It’s the one you use when you get the urge to fuck him in the middle of the night, roll him over while he’s still half asleep, and just take his sweet ass with it. That kind of spontaneous action is important to do every once in a while because it reinforces in his mind that you own his ass and can take it and fuck it anytime you want.

The medium size one is for just general fucking and the one you should use most often. Once you’ve trained his ass, it should go in quite easily, like a hot knife into butter. You should be able to fuck him good and hard with it.

You should also get a second medium size dildo that is specially designed and shaped for milking his prostate and draining his balls of semen without letting him cum. These dildos will have a special bulb or knob at the end with a slight curve to it.

I greeted him at the door on 4" heels, a high ponytail, and a satin apron.

He pushed me into my apartment with hungry kisses and desperate gropes.

I peeled back the layers of a long day at work: briefcase with a thud by the door and the friction of his belt through each belt loop. The buckle jingling as it fell to the floor.

He bent me over the table and thrust himself against my back and ass before unzipping and revealing his excitement to me. I ran the stiletto heel up his inseam while using the mental map of his body to guide my hands to revisit my treasure.

His mouth and hands raced to discover every spot that would make me gasp or moan. I cocked my head and squirmed in the shadow of his stature. The high ponytail danced against my skin.

He grasped my long brown tresses at the tip and recalled all the photos and videos in his wank bank of arched backs and bent necks.

He yanked so hard that he herniated C5-6. During the surgery for my artificial disc replacement, my surgeon found a bone shard 3mm from my spinal cord.

The man who whispered in my ear of how i was “marriage material” moved to Toronto 2 weeks after he damn near made me into a quadriplegic. He closed on a house the day of my surgery.

To this day, I jump when someone puts their hands near my head. My ears ring constantly. And every time I see one of you all post a photo of someone having their hair pulled, I think about all the pain one dumb, badly-executed move caused me.

1. Get consent. 2. Give warning. 3. Grab slowly and smoothly at the roots 4. Movement comes from the wrist (minimizes chance of injury to directional force) 5. If need be, let the person with the hair being pulled hold on to your wrist to either limit your movement or as a failsafe. 6. Over time develop trust with your partner to dial up neck extension, force, or speed.

A lot of men say they want to date or marry a dominant woman, but can you really handle it?

1.   Dominatrix / Domme (a women who assumes the dominant role in bondage, discipline, and other activities, and who derives pleasure from having a man submit to her physically, psychologically, and emotionally).

2.   Corporal Discipline (whereby the submissive male is spanked, whipped, or caned.).

3.   Tease & Denial (whereby the male submissive is sexually aroused or stimulated without climax).

4.   Strap-On Penetration / Pegging (a sexual practice whereby a dominant woman penetrates a man’s ass with a strap-on dildo, for her pleasure, not his).

5.   Forced Feminization (the practice of switching the gender role of a male submissive, often through forced cross-dressing, whereby the male is dressed up in female attire, ranging from wearing panties to being fully dressed in feminine attire, lipstick, and make-up).

6.   Golden Showers (whereby a dominant woman urinates on a submissive man to mark him as her bitch, and often makes him drink it).

7.   Eating Creampie (whereby the submissive male is required to lick out and clean up freshly-ejaculated semen from the dominant woman’s pussy, his own, as well as the cum of other men).

8.   Enforced Male Chastity (whereby the male submissive’s penis is locked up in a male chastity device designed to prevent masturbation and sexual intercourse, which device also restricts his ability to get an erection).

9.   Cuckolding (a sexual fetish whereby the female openly has sex with other men, whether or not her primary partner knows about it or approves).

10.  Bondage (whereby the male submissive is physically restrained by various means, for various purposes).

11.  Cock & Ball Torture (whereby the male submissive’s genitals are physically abused and tortured).

12.  Extended Face Sitting (whereby the dominant female sits on or over the submissive male’s face for the purpose of oral service of her pussy and her asshole).

13.  Ruined Orgasm (whereby the male submissive is provided with stimulation only up to the moment when orgasm is inevitable, and then suddenly stops all stimulation just as his orgasm begins, thereby denying him full orgasmic satisfaction).

14.  Forced Oral Service (whereby the male submissive is required to orally service either men or women, as the Domme may decide).