GET FATTER NOW

After many months of work, I'm proud to share the first version of this worksheet that I have been building to help make feedist play more safe and fun. It still has plenty of kinks (hah) to be ironed out, but overall, I am pretty proud of what it pulls together.

As it says in the "Start Here" tab in the document, the point of this document is to help feedists bring risk-aware consensual kink (RACK) thinking and tools to how they practice our special and unique kink.

A spreadsheet like this may seem daunting at first, but the point of this is to get you and your partner(s) to use this as a jumping off point to sexy conversations that build the safety you need for feedism to be something you can both enjoy comfortably.

A few thoughts to contextualize this as you read through:

It's not exhaustive, by design. The point is not to name every single conceivable act in here, but to hit big enough categories that it allows you to start a conversation.

Generally I've tried to arrange things from low-risk to high-risk. It's imperfect, but the goal is to ensure newcomers to the kink see that there are lots of relatively safe ways to play before jumping into the deep end.

Despite its' brevity, I've tried to stay away from terms like "death feedism" and focus more on specific acts, both because those terms are very confronting and because they contain multitudes within themselves -- best to be specific, was my thinking.

This will necessarily need updating (hence the v1.0) but my hope is that this starts a conversation and that it can be updated by the community to be more encompassing and useful moving forward.

I welcome any and all constructive feedback!

gluttony

noun

glut·​tony / glə-tə-nē  

1.

: excess in eating or drinking

2.

: greedy or excessive indulgence

3.

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Absolutely stuffed. 6,000 calorie lunch and I’m already ready for dinner 🙌🐷