Sugar & Escorting In The Midwest

*I am bold and impactful. 👄

*I will take life at my own pace.

*I am the master of my fate.

*I am the captain of my soul.

*I AM A MONEY MAKER. 💸

*I am to be envied. 💁🏿

*I deserve ALL that life has to offer and will not give those who sit and wait.

Say it with me! And don’t ever forget.

Reblog for good fortune this weekend. 🔮

HOW TO APPROACH CLASSES A guide to getting the most out of your classes and lectures

By Eintsein

Sit down and do this right now. This formula can be used by anyone including strippers & sugar babies

A/B=C

A= your yearly minimum salary - (minus) the minimum amount you need in order to live comfortably for the year. This figure should include taxes, all living expenses, and business related overhead. This amount could be larger or smaller than you imagine, depending on how familiar you are with your own finances.

B= the realistic number of billable hours per week you think you will work, multiplied by the number of weeks in a year you think you’ll work (be sure to include vacation time, or time off if you don’t intend to work during your period). Again, this number might surprise you. If you’re starting out, you have no real idea of how popular you will or won’t be. A goal of one billable hour per day (multiplied by how many days you think you want to work) is a reasonable starting point. If you’re going the high end route, total the number of billable hours per week you think you’ll have, whether with one client or more.

C= minimum suggested hourly rate. Even if you know you want multiple hour appointments, the suggested minimum still applies (multiply the number C by the number of hours in your minimum).

The formula in action:

If your goal is to make $70,000 a year (A) / 250 (B= 5 * 50) = $280. This means your minimum per hour needs to be $280.

$100,000 (A) / 260 (B= 5 * 52) = $385 c

$250,000 (A) / 520 (B= 10 * 52) = $481 c

$250,000 (A) / 320 (B= 8 * 40) = $781 c

The number C is to start you thinking. Your rate structure should not be something you pulled out of thin air or what everyone else is doing. If you want to create a certain image with your rates, then adjust accordingly.

Here’s a quick example of a rate structure:

As a full time sugar, I have a lot of things to keep in order.

So, I thought I would share my checklists with you lovely ladies if you 

A) Wanted to know what a full time sugar does 

B) Needed a reference

or 

C) Wanted direction of some kind

So enjoy.

Daily Checklist:

Shower

Leave-in hair conditioner

Lotion

Eyebrows on point

Check websites (SA, WYP, EM, SD4M)

Respond to POTs privately (private email, phone, skype)

Watch news or read up on current events

Workout (I use the 30 Day Challenge workout app for iPhones)

Update calendars (There’s one on my apple account for devices and I keep a whiteboard calendar)

Yoga

Every Other Day Checklist 

Run with Lucky (very fat dog of mine who’s getting in shape with me)

Top coat of nails

Shave/wax

Clear out trash in room and car

Record weight (only to make sure I’m within a healthy 5 lb fluctuation range)

Update POT/SD information (details about them, what they’re offering, how much I’ve gotten from them)

Weekly Checklist

Exfoliate

Tan

Record finances (where my money is going, where it’s coming from, planned expenses)

Check on goal progress

Go out with friends at least once for sanity reasons

Weekly day off for sanity reasons

Actually clean everything that needs to be cleaned

Laundry

Plan for next week

Rock climb

Monthly Checklist

Bills paid

Correct amount of money put into savings, emergency, etc.

Check closet organization

Car check up 

Read at least 2 books (1 for pleasure, 1 for knowledge)

Lunch with sisters 

All POT/SD details updated 

Hopefully this is helpful to other SB’s, feel free to add anything or change it to your personal life if you wanted a template. Most things are general, but some (rock climbing, closet organization, sister lunch, etc) are personal.

So you have the ambition. You have all the answers. All you lack is the discipline.

Unsurprisingly, this is a problem most people have, so don’t worry, you’re not alone.

Tell me, do you have a concrete goal? Or is it something vague like, “Rule the world”, or “get rich” or “become famous”?

Usually those who lack discipline have a habit of getting ahead of themselves and they end up having all these fantastic goals without any knowledge of how to achieve them. They have big ambitions, but no clear plans, no visible steps, and no foundation to start their life on. It’s the equivalent of standing on one side of the river and being able to see the other side, but having no method of making it across.

It’s good to have a starting point, and know what you want in the end. But the path to earning what you desire isn’t pre-made for you. It’s up to you to lay every brick and measure everything out. In your life, you’re the architect, you’re the engineer, you’re the investor, you’re everything.

So the how do you get some discipline?  It’s simple: You need to know how you’re going to do something, before you set out to do it.

Step 1: Get Motivated

Make a list. And make sure you handwrite it. Two columns. Think about everything you have a problem with, all your interests and passions, and everything you have ever wanted in one column. In the other column, spend as much time as you need to come up with solutions to each issue/goal. Don’t write one side, without the other.

Spend a couple days looking at that list. Make it into a poster, use it as your phone background, it doesn’t matter as long as you make sure you see it every day until you feel something. I’m saying that incredibly vaguely because people are fueled by different emotions. For me, it was rage.

Every morning, I stared at that list of everything I’d ever wanted, every little problem that made my life miserable and I got furious. To see what my life revolved around so callously written on paper, and feeling so close yet so far, that drove me insane. My anger made my passion double, and nothing fuels discipline more than passion.

Step 2: Plan

Once you’ve gotten yourself suitably motivated to take charge of your life, don’t waste any time. Start by creating a plan. Now that you know what you want to do, figure out how to do it.

Create a timeline for the next year and then a looser version for the next ten years. It can sound daunting, but when you fall off track at some point (and I can guarantee, you will) you’re going to need something to point you in the right direction.

For your detailed, one year plan, make sure your goals are distributed into two categories: Short term and Long term.  

For your short term goals, list everything you want to achieve in that year and how exactly you’re going to do it.

For example,  if you want to lose weight, I don’t just want to see you write down “lose weight”. Tell me how. Tell me how much. Tell me by when. “Lose five pounds by October by going to the gym 4 days a week”, or “Cut down on eating X food so I can lose 5 pounds by October”, etc. Be specific.

For your long term goals, pick 3 things you want in general. The first thing should be something you can achieve in that year, and it should be the focus of your entire year. The second thing is something you don’t necessarily need, but it makes you happy anyways (like spending more time on a hobby, or saving money for a new designer bag, etc.). The third thing should be something that stays fairly consistent in every single ‘year-plan’ you have. Ultimately, it’s either your most important desire, or very close to it.

These long term goals will help you put together your 10 year plan, and create a better sense of direction in your life.

Step 3: Prioritize

Learn to prioritize these tasks and goals. Don’t go to sleep until you’ve felt like you’ve completed all your tasks for the day. Don’t give in to distractions and the illusion of “well-deserved fun”. Sure, going clubbing may seem fun on  Saturday, but it won’t be fun on Sunday night when you’re frantically writing a paper that’s due in two hours. There’s always time for fun later, there’s always another concert and another football game and another party. But some things have a greater impact on your life than just one night of “fun”.

I’m not saying become some kind of a workaholic. There’s always a time and a place for everything. If you try to follow your plan without any distractions or any fun, you’re going to get bored and then you’re start to hate your plan and your life and then it gets messy. Avoid all that by knowing when you’ve earned a break. It’s very important to discern when you can afford to step away from work to have fun with your friends and when going out is just going to distract you from an important deadline. 

Step 4: Act

Now, don’t just write these goals down and shove them in a dusty file on your desk. Keep them within arms reach. Look at them frequently. What I like to do is every morning, I write down a short term goal I have for that week/day/month and one of my long-term goals in my planner. It’s just a little reminder and keeps me focused throughout the day. I don’t feel like my day is complete or productive until I’ve had some progress on either the long term or short term goal.

Also, keep in mind that while planning is a great thing to do, don’t expect yourself to stick to every single detail of the plan. Life happens, and there are certain things you cannot control (although it wouldn’t hurt to try). Don’t be too hard on yourself if you find yourself unable to complete one of your goals for the day/week/month. It happens to everyone, we’re all human. What you need to focus on is the big picture and move on. Don’t waste precious time wallowing in past mistakes. Time doesn’t wait for anyone, least of all for you.

Step 5: Commit

Discipline doesn’t come from just being motivated or having a plan. It comes from consistency. Form productive habits, start efficient routines, and stick to them. For example, if you want to become a writer, make sure you write something, however small it is, everyday. One sentence, one paragraph, one page, the amount doesn’t matter. It’s important to understand that something, however small, is better than nothing. This constant dedication to your work will help you move one step closer to your goals.

The more you force yourself to stay in line when faced with temptation, the easier it will be every other time you are faced with the same challenge further down the line. Everyone forms habits. Just make sure they’re the right ones and you’d be shocked at how much your life could change.

Everything you need to become disciplined is inside of you. Everyone has the willpower and motivation. It’s just some people know what to do with it.

Just remember: Get motivated. Plan. Prioritize. Act. Commit

Ever wonder what your life would be like if you lived up to your full potential? Would your body be healthier? Your skin clearer? Bank account bigger? I think about these things all the time, and, judging my a previous post, you guys do to. Below is a chart designed to help all of us live up to our full potential. I’ve broken it down into time frames to help keep you from getting overwhelmed. Write the chart down and hang it someplace where you can see it all the time. I will be starting this challenge tomorrow, 9/8. I’ll check in with you guys every Sunday to track my progress. I have specific goals in mind for myself, and you guys should make some too! I really want to know how you guys are doing. Tag your progress posts with #sbfpc so I can track it and take a look. Let’s get to it!

EVERY MORNING

Stretch. First thing. Really give your body enough time to wake up. Touch your toes. Roll out your shoulders. Do not hit snooze!

Do your full skincare routine. I have mine detailed here, but do whatever works for you and your complexion. Be gentle and consistent. 

Brush your teeth and floss. I used to be a big floss-skipper too, but you’d be amazed at how dig of a difference it makes. Rinse with a whitening mouthwash. I use one by Crest, and I notice a major difference in my teeth’s overall whiteness in just a few days.

Give yourself enough time to get ready. Whether you’re a wash-and-go kind of girl, or someone who spends an hour doing a full contouring routine before class (and either one is fine!), make sure you aren’t rushing. If you need to wake up a few minutes earlier than normal, so be it. Rushing sets an awful, stressed-out tone for the rest of the day. Allow yourself to be relaxed before taking on the day.

Eat something. I’m not going to say eat a big breakfast, because some people (myself included) just can’t eat in the morning. But you should eat, or at least bring a little something with you to work or school. If you can’t eat a full breakfast, grab a fruit! You won’t be as hungry come lunch time, making you less likely to gorge yourself.

Shower. You can do this at night, in the morning, whatever. Again, this is something you should allow some time for. I don’t wash my hair every day, but I do condition it every day (from the ears down). Scrub yourself with a delicious-smelling body wash. If you shave, make yourself as smooth as a dolphin, dude. If you don’t, then don’t and don’t ever ever ever let anyone make you feel bad or weird about it. When you get out of the shower, wrap yourself in a fluffy towel and totally slather your sexy self with lotion. Top to bottom. Do it as soon as you can post-shower so it can really sink in. 

Put leave-in condition throughout your damp hair and comb it through.

Put on an outfit that makes you feel good! So important!

Drink water. Drink water. Drink water. Drink water!!!!!

Take a look at your daily to-do list. Knock out the most pressing stuff first. Take pride when you cross things off your list.

Make your bed! Oh my god, make your bed. Do it. Do it. Do it. 

EVERY AFTERNOON 

Follow the “touch it once” approach. This is a truly life-changing thing. When a task is in front of you, no matter how big or small, just do it right then and there. How many times have you gotten a work email or homework assignment and thought, “Eh, I’ll do it later”? And then later never comes? Once something pops up, do it once. Squash it and be done. Cross things off your list and feel like a badass.

Try to go for a walk at lunch. Even one little lap around the block or campus will reenergize you like nobody’s business. 

Drink water. Drink water. Drink water. Drink water!!!!!

Be present. This is so hard for me too, but you have to make a major effort to be present in whatever you’re doing. Be engaged and plugged-in and just exist in the moment. Give 100 percent.

Be friendly to friends and strangers. A smile goes a long way.

Eat something. Eat what you packed for lunch (see below) and take a break from working while you do it. You need “you time”!

EVERY EVENING

Take your makeup off as soon as you’re in for the night. Wash your face with your full routine and let your skin have a break. 

Workout. You can also do this in the morning. Whatever works for you. Make a great playlist and go hard af. Get your cardio in. Get your strength training in. Earn every freaking sweat bead forming on your forehead. Earn your shower!

Knock out your homework. Life is infinitely better you don’t have anything hanging over your head. Half the time, the energy and emotion you spent dreading/putting off your work is ten times worse than the work itself.

Make a list of what needs to be done tomorrow. It’ll set you up for success the next day, and you won’t forget anything!

Drink water. Drink water. Drink water. Drink water!!!!!

Lay out your clothes for tomorrow. This will save you SO MUCH TIME in the morning omg I can’t even tell you how important this is.

Eat something great. And once you’ve decided to be done eating for the night, be done. Brush your teeth so you can’t eat again.

After brushing, do a whitening treatment. Whether it’s classic baking soda, a Crest white strip, or a laser. Do something. And floss! Retainers in too, ladies 0:)

Relax! Take a few hours to do what YOU want to do. Scroll through Tumblr, binge on some Netflix, FaceTime gossip with your friends, anything. Do whatever makes you happiest. 

Shut the electronics off an hour before you want to go to bed. Put your phone on sleep mode. If you stare at the screen, it will keep you awake and alert and you won’t be able to fall asleep. A good night’s sleep is crucial for weightless and general happiness lol

Do a quick sweep of your room and see if there’s anything you can put away real quick. A clean space is a happy space.

Crawl into your bed (aren’t you happy you took the time to make it?!) and read a book by lamplight for a while. When you start to feel sleepy, go to sleep. Don’t push it. You kicked ass today and you deserve rest. 

EVERY WEEKEND

Do something with your friends. It just has to be one thing. Even if you’re just hanging out at the coffee shop, spending time with your squad will make you a better, happier person.

Drink water. Drink water. Drink water. Drink water!!!!!

Do something just for you. Set your laptop up in the bathroom and watch a Netflix marathon while you take a bubble bath. Buy an old school bottle of Mr. Bubbles ($3 at Target!) and really just soak. Relax. Light a candle.

Do something creative. You can read a book, write, blog, draw, code, anything. It just has to be something that speaks to your passion.

Track your progress. Just do this once a week so it doesn’t become all-consuming. And remember that non-scale victories are just as important as shedding pounds.

Take the time to be grateful. Tell your friend how much you admire her taste in music. Mention to your mom how much you love her cooking and how happy you are that she takes care of you. Thank your teaching after an especially interesting lecture. When you do something awesome, take a moment to admire yourself. Be grateful for even the little things.

Here are some of the things I’ve found:

You girls know that I tried so many different hustles and nothing worked like this one. I want to share the tips. I mix escorting and sugaring approach but in my mind the lines are never crossed and very clear. Why this approach works is that men are usually reluctant to use escort services because it’s too square for them with agencies and with indie escorts they don’t like the unattached feeling. I present myself as the girl next door, sexy and whoaa?? willing to talk to them! It drives them insane and they are already looking for ways to fuck me. So I introduce my terms right at that moment and if they are in that mindset they go for it. In escorting business, conditions are presented at first stage before they can bond with the product and have some sense of comfort around you. So it puts some men off. 

My understanding of sugaring evolved. To me it’s escorting with subscription. Don’t tell me that you have poise, intelligence, conversational skills. So does escort girls. They’re given gifts, taken out on dinners and some guys book just for conversation.

Our target audience’s behavior changed. In the last couple of days I’ve seen girls complaining how sugar bowl isn’t what it used to be anymore. I understand the frustration but as business owners we either adjust or wither.

At the end of the day it boils down to arbitrary of whether to fuck same guy 50 times or fuck 50 guys once. However you’re comfortable.

I will try to explain how I handle a couple of points.

My Persona: Especially in where I live, rich people more and more move to other countries and they usually prefer to date celebrities. Plus, men here are mean to local girls but they put foreigners on pedestals. So for a local guy my persona is a foreigner with some family ties here, she’s visiting them, working as freelance PA and studying. For travelers I’m local and exotic. So I only communicate in English. Because my voice sounds sexy and soft only in English, lol.

Timing: Back to subscriptions. In my experience, sex has an expiration date or it gets better the longer it waits. For example, if you contact someone and arrange to meet in a week, it won’t happen. But if you arrange to meet someone and it somehow fails, don’t contact them next week. Wait at least 3 months. So I try to move as fast as possible with my appointments. Hi how are you? 20:00. Screening. Pay. Fuck. Thank you, Sir. I’ve seen so many posts about sugars keeping him wait for as long as possible. It may work for some type of men but in here if the guy would wanted to hear the answer no, he would have gone to his wife. These men are out there looking to get laid.

Pricing and Market Segmentation: My clients are either nouveau riche or rich people who aren’t really generous. They bring their hard earned money to me. Some can’t afford to be regulars. They just want to have fun every once in a while. They don’t take me out on fancy dates. They don’t do anything fancy. My selections are based on them being kind, no negotiation and willingness to share info for screening. I haven’t met anyone gross so far. They treated me really nice. And they love my body. I seriously haven’t met anyone who wants to have sugar relationship so far. Unless they are using it to scam young girls like my chocolate POT. They want no bs sex and that’s what you need to use to your advantage. You can still use hoe tactics and get yourself taken out if you want to tolerate to be begged for sex and some sexual tension from his end everyday but I just realized I didn’t have time for that and I would very much like to have my money.

Behavior: Two things are important here; 1. High threshold for bullshit. 2. Sweetness. You have to be VERY good at detecting bullshit and stopping it before it happens in a very kind and sweet manner. Because they’ll give you bullshit 24/7. That’s in the job description. You need to turn it around and refuse it without making them feel rejected and embarrassed. Whenever they ask me nudes I explain them that I’m a student at a top tier school and I’m only escorting to pay that so I can have a career some day and I don’t want these pics to haunt me. The other day, after I turned down that guy who asked my nudes while I was sick saying I will contact him later and that it’s my turn at doctor’s office and never hit him up. I have tried no bullshit approach but really, the real no bs approach that works is doing it without letting him know. Often times when you refuse something, you’re the bad cop. Always be the good cop and deflect the blame on something else. 

“I would love to entertain you but my career doesn’t allow me to spread my nudes.“ 

"Aww, sweetie.. That’s such a generous offer but I am on a mission to be able to cover my college debt so I’m afraid I will have to look for more generous offers.”

“I would love to spend the whole night with you but my room mates doesn’t know that I’m in this line of work so I wouldn’t want them questioning anything.” (if you can’t stay even for extra money)

Other two things you need to be is quick and direct. Men have short attention span. If you keep talking to them for hours with no plans they’ll get bored. Also in my experience whenever I sent one of my long proses about what I’m looking for etc, they felt like I was trying to scam them. Even most men on SA don’t understand sugaring and it feels like a scam for them. I keep things short and sweet and move quickly. I’ll demonstrate at the end of my writing.

Your time’s worth: I’ve seen ladies thinking that their time is the most precious thing on earth and money should rain down on them just for existing. I make myself approachable for these men if they want to get to know me. I know escorts hate when their clients hit them up 2557976321580 times a day but I try my best to keep the communication for as long as it’s not too invasive. This is where escorting and sugaring approach blends. They want you approachable and they want the kitty asap. You should work that ego because it’s 90% stroking the ego and 10% stroking the cock. This is where the whole scam is. Fill the void get the money. Another scam trick I use is that, I don’t charge by the hour. My flat rate is 1k and that’s the worth of a date with me. They get to choose what they want to do. Of course there’s a mental limit in my mind and always an excuse available if they are taking too long. But I never needed to use it. My first booking got tired after 2 hours. Second booking cuddled the whole time and was done by the end of an hour. Third, also lasted 1,5h with 30mins of horrendous sex and 1h chilling on couch. 4th, 15 minutes for whole appointment. They always want to push for an overnight but I love my solitude so much for that. I kindly tell them that my room mates would get worried and they don’t know that I escort. Always does the trick. I know this part is an unpopular opinion and it’s open for exploitation but you need to make sure you hold the reigns and keep things sweet and short.

Here’s a demonstration of how my tinder conversations go.

-Hi hello you’re so hot

-Aww thanks babe, so are you. [insert some small talk

-How can I meet you? Omg your curves!!!

-I’d love that!! We could have some fun/nice evening/great time. so, are you interested in spoiling me then?

-How would you like to be spoiled?/YES!! I AM!!

-I’m used to get 1k for my time for a nice evening with a gentleman. 

-That’s fine, are you available tonight?

Easy peasy, my queens

I’ve never heard of someone starting off with rates that high and actually being successful, tbqh.

The markets that can support such high rates are very limited (think NYC, LA, Bay Area). Perhaps someone who is additionally able to invest enough into photos, web design, etc?

*Long Post Warning*»You will learn the value of yourself the more and more you differentiate between these two words when accepting things (i,e compliments, gifts, money, etc)  from people,men especially. It helps you, at the same time more or less help them what you will and will not accept. Also, when it comes to excitement you have to learn which to internalize and which to express, how, when. and what, but I’m not going to teach that today.

Appreciation (1 or 2 emoji expressions insert here):

Compliments:

Some idiot your age: ” Damn girl/ma you looking nice!”

Pot: You’re so hot!

First of all he used slang, enough said. You simply say thank you and redirect conversation if there is any interest worth pursuing. If not thank you is simply enough for that simple ass compliment . You should not be jumping for joy.

Gifts:

A gift card specified to a specific store:

A Forever 21 dress

Here as well, “thank you and very sweet gesture.” Insert smiley face here. Most gc specified to a store are not really that expensive or the card amount is lower than you would like. Forever 21 can be pricey, but it is marketed toward high school girls not maturing young women.

Money

A certain amount given to you because of an emergency

Anything < or = $500

“Thank you for helping me. Very considerate and thoughtful of” If you are giving your time and or vagina to someone who claims to care about you, to help you in an emergency situation is something to be grateful and appreciative. 

I  know you’re thinking Honee is so calculated and cold, but it gets better from here…I promise.

Excitement:(Insert 5+ emojis here”&some by your name in my phone)

Compliments:

Some idiot your age: “Excuse me, can I talk to you for a minute. I really could not take my eyes off you as I saw you walk this way”

Pot: You are a really beautiful young lady and I would love to take you to dinner.”

Regardless,the compliments are a bit cheesy and may even be straight up game, but the approach is entirely different and more gentleman like.

Gifts:

A universal gift card you can use anywhere.

BCBG/Zara dress

Universal explains itself. BCBG/ Zara dresses are pricey but accentuate your curves in all the right places without looking like a a high school kid off the Disney Channel.

Money

$1k+

Your allowance

Any gentleman that can shell out $1k+ in cash,check or money payable to Honee,clears,and available for use, is worth keeping around. Any gentleman that shells out my requested allowance on a daily,weekly,bi-weekly,and or monthly basis is worth being excited for. 

You do not get EXCITED over things you can do yourself. You show APPRECIATION for them. Filling up my < or = $100 gas tank is or paying for a taxi,uber,not impressive. Now a $500+ gas card,send a limo paid for the day, or pick me the f**k up is my kind of guy.

You do not get EXCITED over someone taking you to a 4* or 5* restaurant. That is where he is suppose to take you. A real gentleman courts you properly!!

No Chill Zone Sunday,

This question…it’s a problem. It really is. Let me explain…

That’s not being an SB and these men KNOW that. These men EXPLOIT that. 

What you’re doing when you’re operating in such a way as an SB is devaluing yourself. 

I’ve seen the men’s lounge on ECCIE. There’s a thread specifically about sugar babies, where they talk about how they get them to do the same things for escorts for less money. These men are the men you will likely encounter. These men are not SD’s. They will not treat you like a real SD will treat you. They will likely never spoil you or take you on trips or buy you designer goods or pay your bills. They these things Golden Pussy Syndrome. 

Do. Not. Play. Their. Game.

The best advice I can give you is to become an escort. Under the title of being an SB, you can spend hours with a guy, go to dinner and then fuck him and walk away with $200. You can do the same thing as an escort and walk away with $1000. Be a smart hoe. Don’t play their game. 

These per-date “sugar” relationships are bullshit and they need to stop. 

The whole concept is literally just a way that men have played us to get their way. If you think I’m bullshitting you, what do you like about this arrangement? You spend a few hours and walk away with some cash? If you want that money to keep coming steadily, you’re going to have to fuck for it. And you’ll be making less money. 

The point here is; think about how you want to organize and run your business before you start because regardless of what you call yourself, you are still running a business. 

Some men have literally told me that they do SB because it’s cheap prostitution. They KNOW they are getting way more than what they pay for! An escort would ruin them and not even give them any affection. Sugaring is an absolute bargain. And the worst of all is these men feel entitled to have both the kitty and the full girlfriend experience (affection, attention, compliments, etc). They make no effort in their personal lives but they think throwing a little cash can basically buy love for them. They are so arrogant while having it all.