StormOrSkyBreakDown

Happy Mspec Lesbian Visibility and Awareness Week everyone! Here is an mspec lesbian pride flag I made a while ago but haven’t uploaded publicly until now. 

This flag is for anyone who identifies with the term “mspec lesbian” or it’s more specific labels (ie. bi lesbian, pan lesbian, omni lesbian, ply lesbian, neptunic lesbian, etc). This flag is inclusive to all of those who feel it fits them. <3

Stripe meanings under the cut for people who care about that sort of thing:

Most of us who are bi lesbian or mspec lesbians in general use those labels as a mean to honour history and reclaim inclusive definitions that have not been affected or shaped by terf rethoric.

This is one of the reasons why I identify as a bi lesbian myself. I am not a lesbian in a nmlnm way, but I am a person who love women in a queer way and I am a lesbian. I refuse to center a lack ot love or attraction in my identity as a lesbian, I refuse to centre hatred in my identity in any way shape or form.

The nmlnm definition also often further pushes gender essentialist ideologies, which is bound to hurt any and all trans and gnc people.

My identity is one of love. My existance as a queer person is focused on my love for women, my love for queer people, and solidarity with all of my queer brothers, sisters and siblings. I will not align myself in any way with the people or the ideology that are hurting some of us, and so no, I will not start using the nmlnm definition any time soon.

Aside from that, historical definitions are beautiful, and I feel honoured to be able to share some things with those who came before me. I feel proud to be able to use the same labels as many others who came before us, I feel proud to share a community with them.

There are many people who are way better at educating on queer history than I am, and so I will let them do their job to talk about more about the history of those labels and of the people who used them, but I still wanted to mentioned how this still play a role in "why do I identify that way".

All credit forthe prompts to @the_corvidae on twitter

That man is too much of a show off and too adventurous to want to simply, “settle down” don’t even start with that. He may be good with kids but I’m pretty sure it’s mostly because he has nieces and nephews. Not because he wants to have his own kids.

Not to mention he literally was depressed when he had nothing to do and was pretty much shunned by the rest of the team for no reason other than him being a goofball. He would not just simply, sit still. It’s not in his character and any time he does stay in one place for too long he hates it. He would want to travel and maybe he and Keith wouldn’t work out but saying he wouldn’t want to travel all together shows to me that you probably didn’t read his character as well as you think you did.