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really nice gift for Specifically Me when the character has an immediate and violent panic response to being held down / physically restrained. especially if their affect is usually cheerful or relaxed or reserved and this is their one "sicko mode (wildly uncharacteristic)" button.

I think self shippers deserve to be nicer to themselves and make the way they imagine their f/os nicer to them bc being miserable as fuck gets old quickly but gets addicting given the right circumstances. I think self shippers should give themselves grace and allow themselves to grow into happier people bc of their f/o.

Your f/o would never ever want to, or even stomach the thought of upsetting or hurting you, especially not on purpose. Rude insults, making you feel bad, shaming you, anything else? No. Never. Never ever. They want you to feel loved, safe, happy with them.