Wandering thoughts

Though Ryle was so wrong . I agree lily suffered a lot but why is no one talking about the fact that Ryle is also the victim and at the end he would be the one to suffer the most . He changed his principles & opened himself to love & relationship he was already suffering since childhood due to the unfortunate event he acted like that because of his unwanted rage .

At the end when lily left him why do I feel he would be completely lost .It wouldn't be easy for him to go back to his old self & as the person who changed him left,it would be even harder to stay as his new version.