With Motherâs Day coming up, I just want to give a shoutout to all of those who are low contact or no contact with their mother or mother figure. So many people say âbut sheâs your___!â and Iâm sorry that they push that on you. You are completely valid if you need/want space from your mom and it doesnât mean that youâre bad or anything like that.Â
I also want to give a shoutout to those who have lost their mother/mother figure. Loss is hard and it can be traumatic and if Motherâs Day brings up bad feelings for you, you are so valid.Â
If Motherâs Day is hard for you for whatever reason(s), you are completely valid and thatâs okay. Â
Itâs Motherâs Day where I am today so this feels relevant again.
Sadly itâs impossible to avoid hearing about it too. Every store and restaurant advertisement is going to shove it in your face. For those who deal with the trauma, anger, sadness, whatever youâre feeling my heart goes out to you. You will get through this, you are stronger than your pain, and it does get easier. I know.























