Stage 2

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Hey! First off let me just say congrats on branching out with your gf and trying something like this, that’s awesome.Strap-ons can be a lot of fun for the both of you even though generic strap-ons will typically use a one sided “giver” and “receiver” sort of system (so typically no, the wearer will not receive direct pleasure) So most usually just take turns, which don’t get me wrong can be a lot of fun. ;)Now keep in mind I said “generic strap-ons”. Another option would be the “Share Dildo” or the “strapless strap-on” where it still would function the same way as a strap on, however the “giver” inserts one end into their vagina and uses the other end as a dildo in the same manner as a strap on. Now before you get too excited, keep in mind that this is pretty new tech and that the system isn’t perfect yet. I.E. it can be difficult sometimes for the “giver” to keep it in, due to all of the counter pressure, but apparently with proper kegel exercises its supposed to work and give, shared pleasure. Honestly you would probably be safer off, especially since its the first time using to just go with a strap on, but i figured i would give you all of your options. I don’t know, both sound like a lot of fun ;)

I’m so sorry this took so long, I just finished moving into my new place. Hopefully this isn’t too late.

The best advice I can give you regarding wanting to begin masturbating would be to start slow. Give yourself time to relax. Have your favorite meal, take a shower, wear your most comfortable clothes, do whatever it is you can do to make yourself completely at ease. Then wait until the house is completely empty or as close as it can be so there is no interruptions or fear of interruptions. Get comfortable in bed. Something that I find helps me is to just put lotion on myself, just so everything is soft and smooth. Additionally I find that it makes it easier to work myself up from that point as you’re already stripped down and relaxed. Here’s where things will start heating up. Go slow, breathe, and just start exploring. See what feels good for you, everyone is different so don’t be discouraged if some things don’t work as well on you as they do with others. Close your eyes. Start feeling up and down your body, the different curves, the different crevasses. With your eyes still closed, (it helps you focus on what you’re feeling) try feeling your breasts, feel your nipples, feel down in between your legs. A safe place to begin would be the clitoris. Rubbing it in a figure 8 always gets me going. But don’t be afraid to try going inside, just don’t force it. You want this whole thing to be as natural as possible, if you feel it, go for it, if not don’t worry, try again later or try again next time. Now back to the clitoris. Don’t be afraid to change it up on that little sucker every now and again. However, if it starts feeling really good, keep at it, switching it up at this point could throw you off the path. Keep in mind for some people, solely clit action can be too much at first, and if that is the case, don’t worry there are plenty of way to enjoy treating yourself. Now if you do go inside, keep in mind, again, everyone is different, so experiment with yourself, explore. There is another holy grail to be found besides your clit, the fabled g-spot. If you do go looking for this sucker, keep in mind that its not as deep as you might think. A couple inches max from the opening of your vagina, typically on the uppermost wall. Once you get yourself into a good rhythm, you’ll know. Keep at it moving to places both inside, and out until you feel the sweet release you’ve been working towards. It’s really something, let me tell ya.Hopefully I didn’t make this sound too intimidating. I promise, getting to know yourself better sexually is one of the biggest favors you can do for yourself in the long run. Not to mention masturbation can help relieve stress, lowers the risk of heart disease (google that shit), releases endorphins which can help promote deeper, healthier sleep, and improve overall vagina health; not to mention it’s a lot of fun. ;)

Another thing, please, PLEASE don’t feel guilty for masturbating. Don’t do that to yourself no matter the reason. Masturbation is as natural as bringing air into your lungs and should be regarded as such. There should be no shame in loving yourself.