Mafer

As an aroace person limerence and hypersexuality has to be the worst two things to experience.

"we need weirder queers" you guys couldnt even handle asexual people in 2016 (and probably still cant handle them)

Aro

It’s time to stop treating first dates, first kisses, and losing virginity as milestones or rites of passage that must be completed. It’s time to stop expecting these things to happen in everyone’s teen years or even in their twenties. It’s time to stop letting people call themselves “late bloomers” for getting their first kiss at 16. It’s stupid. It’s unnecessary. It’s damaging to people who for whatever reason it may be don’t have romantic prospects or don’t even want to do those things.

YES i want to look hot. NO i don’t want anyone to be attracted to me ever. shocked and appalled that these two things cannot coexist

NOT ONLY do i want more m/f friendships in media where there's nothing romantic between them, but i want m/f friendships where both characters are SINGLE so that there's no reason there to "justify" why those two can't date. i want the platonicness of their relationship to be something that stands on its own merit.

having adhd is weird cuz people will ask you what your hobbies are n you’re just like. i don’t think i have those

The aroace urge to queer every love song into a QPR anthem.

Some of my friends tell me that they’re jealous of me because of my being aroace. I assume it’s because I don’t have any “relationship drama”. I suppose they have good intentions but it still makes me feel…off? Kinda like a backhanded compliment. I don’t know if I should take it take it as a compliment or not.