Ty Lee's humiliation ritual.
Also known as the beach episode!
This is a continuation of the last post I made where I gave examples of how Azula failed Ty Lee as a friend.
Fuck shit happens and now we're at the beach, surrounding a campfire. Zuko is pissed and starts throwing his family's portrait into the campfire flames.
Ty Lee tries to talk Zuko down and Zuko lashes out at her.
I'm annoyed with Zuko being an asshole but I don't particularly mind compared to Azula and Mai because Zuko was never portrayed as being a friend of Ty Lee. He's an ass, yes but his only connection to her is through his now ex-girlfriend and his golden child sister.
It makes sense that Zuko made this assumption about Ty Lee being ditzy (he doesn't say that but that's the jist of it) because he doesn't know Ty Lee. He knows of her.
Mai chides Zuko and tells him to leave Ty Lee alone. On one hand, I felt happy that someone in this damn episode said something on her behalf. On the other hand, it was a pretty weak attempt.
Zuko calls Ty Lee a circus freak and Ty Lee is obviously upset about this. The guy she tried so desperately to reach out to is now shitting on her. Just like at the party where Ty Lee reached out to Azula to vent, only to be slut shamed and victim blamed.
Azula being the ain't shit friend we all know her to be, is laughing at Ty Lee's humiliation.
But the moment Ty Lee tries to open again about her trauma relating to her childhood, Azula responds with exasperation. It isn't fun when the person you're kicking down is actively getting up huh?
Ty Lee breaks down into a tearful confession about her trauma.
And she tries to reclaim the term circus freak as a compliment. But this effort is pretty meaningless since Mai throws this curve ball.
Mai decides now is the perfect time to bring up Ty Lee dating history and slut shames her as well.
Mai is doing the "sexual behavior and history." This isn't coming from a place of empathy or realization, this is pure insensitivity wrapped as "telling it how it is."
When Zuko opens up about his trauma, everyone pays attention. When Mai opens up, Zuko praises her and smiles warmly. When Ty Lee does, she gets her dating history shoved in her face and her trauma ignored so everyone else to get their time to shine. Ty Lee doesn't get validation. Even Azula gets the focus on her from other characters.
Ty Lee reaches out to support her friends? Gets shat on.
Ty Lee reaches out to get support from her friends? Gets shat on.